I am an amazing woman, and I make an excellent partner for the right man. I am also a pain in the ass. Let me explain.

Let's get the physical out of the way. Black, medium brown skin, braids and glasses. 5'2, probably 215lbs. Hourglass.

Professionally, I am an educator, poet, and social justice warrior with a few degrees under my belt. I am finishing up my phd right now.

I am autistic and have depression and anxiety. This, in some ways, makes me a pain in the ass. But, it is also what makes me amazing.

When it comes to loyalty, I don't see other men. When I am with someone, I don't register other folks as sexual beings. It just doesn't occur to me. I hung out for a while in infidelity subs because I wanted to understand why someone would do it, and I still don't entirely get it. You never have to worry about me cheating, ever.

You don't ever have to worry that I am using you for your money or status. My brain doesn't work that way.

I am not really concerned with the way somebody looks. I am actually suspicious of anybody who is too conventionally attractive, not because that makes someone a bad person. However, on the internet, folks who are too conventionally attractive tend to be catfish. But aside from that, I am just not wired for that to be important to me.

I am faithful, loyal, and supportive. When I truly believe in the person that I am with, I will put the work in to help make their dreams a reality.

I do my very best to anticipate my partner's needs and wants. Without asking, I quietly smooth the way. My exes for the most part haven't realized all the things that I did for them until I wasn't there anymore. Love, for me, is very much a verb.

None of this changes the fact that I am a pain in the ass. I won't travel without snacks. In fact, on a car trip, I tend to carry everything anyone I am with may possibly need. Makes packing the trunk quite interesting. There is a lot of food that I can't eat and many foods I don't eat. I am often late.

I can drive, but it stresses me out. I am a mediocre driver. I can cook, but it stresses me out, and I am a mediocre cook. I am not coordinated or athletic, and I tend to drop and/or lose my phone and other important stuff.

I have 1-2 panic attacks a year. A meltdown maybe every 2-3 months.

I don't have sex I don't want to have (which should be everyone, everywhere but we live in a messed up world). I don't have any kind of sex (including phone or cyber sex) outside of a relationship. I don't want to have sex unless I feel clean. I am not sucking on any part of anyone else's body that is not freshly washed. However, when my conditions are met, sex with me is pretty amazing. I tend to be hyper-sensitive where that is concerned.

At the end of the day, I am an amazing partner. Anyone who is loved by me is blessed and highly favored. I deserve to receive that love in return.

Today, I would like to have a voice conversation probably on discord with single man living in the US with a college degree, age 35-49, gainfully employed (In today's world, I would argue that that is 35k. Poverty sucks. I am not choosing that for my life)with reliable transportation and a place to live. I don't have kids, but if you do that's great. I am allergic to cats, but I have 2 dogs. No smokers and no trumpers ( I am allergic to smoke, marijuana, and bullshit).

I would like to make a friend with the possibility of maybe more one day.

If you have made it this far, thank you so much for your time and attention. Even if you never contact me, taking the energy to read what I have written is gifting me with your time, and I appreciate it. I really appreciate you.

Sending you love and light. 💛💛💛