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Dear Diary,

Reddit is an amazing place but it's a jungle of emotional unavailable, hyper sexual, unsolicited dick pics. Amidst the chaos of depravity and desperation lurks a few stunning visions of compassion and beauty though like any diamond, they can be hard to find but life changing when you do.

Life should be about excitement and hope, inspiration and motivation, it should be captivating and full of wonder. We are all a little broken but some of the pieces still manage to fit together. No matter how broken we are or what traumas we survive the fact we survive is like the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold called Kintsugi . Sure we were broken but once we've healed we are more beautiful then we started. The truth is we are all a little damaged, what matters is what we do about it.

You Are Not For Everyone, And That is Your Superpower.

If you were for everyone you'd be plain and boring, a jack of all and master of none. Sure it would be easier to find a match, be it platonic or intimate but you'd be suffocating your uniqueness and the capacity to stand out. More over if you were for everyone you wouldn't be special and I believe everyone is capable of exemplary individuality even if it's buried beneath the cold exterior walls we put up to protect ourselves from being hurt, again.

So without further gilding the lily and with no more ado, I present to you... well myself.

I am a 46 year old woman from Arizona. I am looking for friends who are willing to be platonic or flirty without becoming hyper sexual. I am bisexual so gender doesn't matter, I'll flirt with everyone. I don't mind intimate conversation topics but I definitely do not want to turn every single moment into a sexually charged topic, yea you know who you are.. Steven!

It would be a shorter list if I told you what I'm not into over what I am into. I am extremely diverse in my eclectic tastes.. yes this was an attempt at humor. I am passionate about communication and "love to talk, at great lengths, whether you like it or not" - movie quote and bonus points if you can guess the movie.

I am a huge supporter of the LGBTQIA community and I have a couple letters of that alphabet stamped on my own card. Ally? Member? Yea definitely both so you need to at least be a strong supporter.

Back to the shorter list of what I don't like; Christianity, Republicans, Grammar police, and literally anyone who forces their opinion onto others. See told ya it's a short list.

I love music both English and German and the quickest way to my heart is via sharing music. I love and value communication above everything else so it's quite important to me to know you took the time to read this text wall. Yea I know it's a little lengthy but knowing you genuinely took the time to read this word sandwich means allot to me. So if you text me ask me how my little fur baby Andy is doing. Think of it like a passcode to a membership at the big kid's table.

I get a great deal of men who message me after reading the title and never actually read the post. This happens frequently which also floods my inbox and I never ghost anyone who puts in at least the minimal effort. This can cause me to be a little slow in responding initially, so be patient with me as I search for you, my diamonds in the rough and eventually we will weather the storm and have a fantastic relationship.

If you would so desire to talk with me please do so by starting off with an introduction about yourself via opening chat. In other words pretend you're a stranger I don't know and tell me your name, age, gender and rough location in this small world. If I don't respond to you then you likely didn't read this post, so feel free to reread and try again. Whether we speak or not I wish you to find the kind and gentle warmth you're perusing this subreddit for and obtain the magic that makes your life that much better.

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