Thank you for looking at my post it's a long post but worth it! :)

My name is Jase, I am 42 years old, I am a mixing and mastering engineer in Oklahoma. I am a widower but I am ready to see what is out there. I am looking for a long-term chat / relationship. I am wanting a online/phone/texting/met in IRL if things become more. If you're in Oklahoma that is a awesome plus but not required at all but must be in the USA. I work from home so I am always bored and it would be nice to have someone to share my time with. It sucks being lonley at this age. I don't do politics it just ends up being a shit show but if you have your views that is fine but I don't like to discuss politics.

This is me, I am still getting use to not wearing my glasses. Yes I am a Chubby guy but I am working on it everyday. I have already lost 35lbs. I am also 5'7 yeah I know short king :/ Why is every dude on reddit like 6'2? Makes us shorter guys look bad.

I am a introvert but I do like to go out to the movies or out to eat, I enjoy concerts or hell even just walking around cool interesting places! I can also just chill on the couch watching tv or a movie with take out and be completely happy too. I’m a smart, funny, loyal guy, I, myself, am strange and unusual(If you know where this quote is from you're already awesome) so being weird & nerdy is ok with me! :)

I am looking for a girl that is 28 (Don't get me started on the age gap stuff)

I don't really care about body shape or size but curvy girls are always a plus. I would like someone that is OK with sarcasm and giving it back :) Funny, loving, caring, clingy is also great because I am clingy too. A Cuddler, Likes to get and give GM/GN Texts. Likes a little dark humor thrown in! She must be willing to put in just as much effort as I am into it. I would like you to be shorter or at least the same height as me but if you are taller and like short dudes that works too! You don't have to be into all the same things as me and is perfectly fine to like other things. Maybe you can teach or show me some new things.

I do have one child, she is going to turn 23 this year and I am very proud of her but NO she doesn't need a Mother. If that is a deal breaker that is totally fine though.

I might be older but I am still true to myself. I am a huge nerd. I collect all kinds of items from movies, tv shows, gaming, pop culture etc. I do enjoy gaming, I play mostly on PC, I like FPS, MMO'S, RPG games, Adventure games etc, I am excited for the new Diablo 4 game. If you're not into gaming that is 100% completely OK. I am also not the type of guy that will put things above his partner.

If want to see my nerdcard click the link - https://imgur.com/a/V8jPHI7

Music is a huge thing to me, I enjoy Rock/Alternative/Punk/Pop-Punk/Metal/Country etc. I love all types of music. Some of my favorites are Blink-182, All Time Low, The Offspring, Mayday Parade, Trivium(Huge Fan), Metallica, Foo Figthers, Linkin Park, Bullet For My Valetine, Blake Shelton, Chris Young, Luke Bryan, Sam Hunt. Way too many to list really.

I enjoy all types of movies. DC, Marvel, HUGE Horror Guy, Sci-Fi, Romantic Movies(HEY I saw The Fault in Our Stars and it was a great movie), Drama Movies, Action Movies. I have far too many favorite movies to list but that is something we can talk about!

I also enjoy TV/Online shows like Stranger Things, Wednesday, Chilling Adventures of Sabrina, GhostHunters, Ghost Adventures, Any Ghost Show in General, Big Bang Theory, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, BattleBots, WWE/AEW etc. I am not picky at all really but those are some of my favorites.

(I just dated myself so BAD with Buffy the Vampire Slayer)

So that is me in a nut shell. If that didn't scare you off and you made it to the bottom of the post then I hope to hear from you! You can Message or Chat me. :)