Hi. I am a 40 year old conventionally unattractive female searching for a male counterpart with whom I may share common values and chemistry. I like to get straight to the point when describing my ideal partner so I'll dive right in.

My ideal partner:

-Doesn't ever want children.

-Is between the ages of 35-48.

-Is never controlling, is gentle, relaxed with a "go with the flow" sort of personality. A really soft, gentle agreeable personality.

-Doesn't mind a woman who is shy and quiet.

-Lets me determine my own direction as far as career, education and how to spend my time. Would never force me to get a job if I wasn't ready to do so.

-Is not a fan of sports or outdoor activities. Is more of an indoor, techie, computer nerd type of guy.

-Is cultured and intellectual to some extent but also humble about it. Doesn't think he's better than others.

About me:

-Very feminine but sometimes dresses masculine. I've been known to wear men's pants and collared dress shirts with a bowtie.

-Very open minded about fashion. Today I might dress as a goth with white makeup and black lipstick and a wig. Tomorrow I might wear sweatpants and a Tshirt, the day after I might wear a vintage 50's inspired pink dress. I love all different colors and lots of different styles.

-I love decorating for the holidays and home decor. My dream is to own a home and paint the walls purple with black lace curtains. I go nuts for Christmas and put up lights everywhere. I have a lots of LED lights up in my home.

-My two main hobbies are reading books and watching movies. If you don't like old black and white or old cult classic movies you definitely wouldn't be a good fit for me.

-I love going to the ballet and it's a personal tradition for me to see a ballet once or twice per year. My ideal partner would enjoy doing this type of activity with me as well as going to symphonies or art museums or wherever we fancy to go.

I've been let down in the past and this time I am looking for the real deal. I am searching for THE ONE that I am meant to spend the rest of my life with. Send a message if you think we could have chemistry.

Ps--Don't forget: I don't want children!! That's extremely important! Haha.