I spent my 30s trying to "grow up" only to hit my 40s and realize no one cared if I grow up or not.
I want someone who hates pop culture but secretly eats it up from the sidelines. I want someone who will go sneaker shopping with me. I want someone who loves it when I tell them they look hot, but knows there's no sex. I want someone who can flirt because they are bored and just need entertainment. Someone who wants to get in deep conversations about psychology (therapist or crazy one, I don't care the side), Someone who's pissed enough at the world to get the punk lyric references. Someone who asks me for advice when picking out a dress for a night out. Someone who doesn't listen to music but requires it like food and water. Someone who could totally change the world if they just got out of the house more often.
I'm looking for someone different but I feel like there's a chance. My situation may look different but I'm not hear to judge how we got here. I'm 46, married, not in an "open marriage" but also not in a typical situation. I'll figure this out eventually but if you're still reading send a message along. We all need to do something stupid to keep ourselves young.
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