Hey all! I'm just a guy, staring at a screen, typing rambling words that undoubtedly mean more to me than you, and yet I still type. Well, I suppose I should get to it then.

I'm a 43 year old guy living in Roanoke, VA, no kids or pets to mention - well, unless you count Audrey III (a beautiful cutting I'm desperately trying to keep alive!) or my plush stuffed Adipose. I'm in a committed enm relationship with my gf whom I'm madly, passionately - obsessively? Probably! - in love with. (She also doesn't live with me, so I'm mainly looking for someone to occupy my time the other 6 days of the week.)

Since I haven't met you yet, I do hope you won't mind me talking about myself just a bit here.

I'm tall, like 6'4 tall, and I have the dad-bod to go with it, although I've been actively changing my lifestyle, forcing myself to (bleh!) workout regularly, and my goal is to shed the dad-bod once and for all this year. I'm working on writing the first of a series of fantasy novels, although I'll never be a starving artist, hence the stable day job. I'm super nerdy, into pop culture, Sci fi, fantasy, tabletop gaming, etc and so on. I'm big into punk rock music, although I listen to a bit of everything. Horror movies are great, but I'll take supernatural horror over torture porn any day. I'm traditionally a city-guy, although I've been slowly learning to enjoy being out in nature. I'm from Denver originally, have lived in 33 States so far, and have traveled through 49 (sorry Alaska! You're too far away at this time!) Fall is the season I feel most alive, and Halloween is my jam! Like... My JAM! I'm very much addicted to tattoos and piercings - I currently have 24 pieces of jewelry in my body, in December 2022 I finally completed my left sleeve, Cthulhu, and started my right sleeve, Hastur, in February! (I have a 5-year plan to get 85% of my body covered in HP Lovecraft monsters, lol!) I adore the oceans, but also enjoy mountains. Nothing is sexier than ripping each other's clothes to shreds during a severe thunderstorm, especially if the ground is shaking and the power gets knocked out.

For the controversial stuff, I'm an atheist - I won't hold your beliefs against you, as long as you don't try to shove then down my throat - I'm a supporter of BLM, I'm not a fan of capitalism as a system, I know the Earth is a sphere, and on dating apps I always swipe left on right-wingers. I consider myself physically bi, not romantically, I looooove the lgbtqia community, am very sex-positive, and have no desire to ever participate in government-sponsored marriage. I'm a Marvel fan (but not a snob about it), have several generations of PlayStation (again, all gamers are cool, this is just my preference), and still get misty-eyed from time to time over Firefly getting canceled by FOX.

For the sexy stuff, I have an obscenely high sex drive, a few (mostly tame to medium) kinks, and I'm very dominant-leaning. I've had 6 successful CNCs over the past couple of years. I growl, sometimes too much, and have a tendency to leave beautiful finger-shaped bruises in the most wonderful places. I prefer being moderate, and love giving praise, although sassiness will be appropriately punished - funished? I'm very much an exhibitionist and enjoy a bit of voyeurism here and there. I absolutely love making content (free stuff ofc!), and I'm in the process of learning as much as I can. (Also looking into learning rigging; it's an absolutely beautiful artform!)

For you, I don't really have a type, per se. I'm looking for someone intelligent, open minded, kink-friendly who I'd be able to vibe with for friendship, fun, and sextracuricular activities. Ideally you'd have time to spend together regularly (my weekends are usually spent with my gf, although if we hit it off I'd love for you to meet and be at least genuine friends, very kitchen-table). I'm interested in anything from casual fwb to a 24/7 lifestyle sub. As long as we're leaving each other better than we found each other, I figure we'd be doing it right.