Hi, I hope you're doing well and thank you for taking the time to read my post.

I want to get to know you and what your goals are. I am the type that doesn’t settle but looking for a life partner. So I choose to be in someone's life and I hope they choose to be in mine. I am not interested in casual, hook up, or FWB, never have been. I am not here for someone who is lonely. I am ok being alone, done it this long and it’s been great to be honest. I just want someone I can share life with, in as much of a positive way as I can. Yes there are ups and downs but I feel if we both work together it could be a good life together. I like a deep connection that has trust in it. Being honest with each other is very important and checking in on each other to make sure our relationship is doing good. I think we both need that for it to work.

Young or old doesn’t matter to me. The connection and conversation does. Please take a look at your life and be honest with yourself, do you have the time to put into a relationship? I do but have been finding a lot of men on here that don't have time for one or don’t financially have the ability to even meet me.

If you live out of state I need to be straight with you, I don’t make a lot of money so for me to travel out of state I have to save for several months to save up for the plane ticket and that doesn't count hotel stay, food, taxi if I need one. So please realize that. If you're someone who travels a lot and it’s simple for you to do so, then by all means visit me but take into account the first time you meet me in person. You have to pay for a hotel to stay in the area and your airfare to even visit me.

Some things about me:

Single- over a year now

Monogamous

Straight-female

No children-Meaning I never had them or been really around them either/ I am clueless about kids/ don’t mind them but 0 skills with kids.

Never married ( open to talking about it and have nothing against marriage)

Don’t smoke- not even pot and prefer not to be around someone who does smoke it.

Drinking- 1 or 2 times a year and never been drunk. Alcohol tastes bad to me. So if you drink, be a responsible drinker.

Want a long term relationship

Some more detailed information:

• -Camping: once to twice a year and that is because my friend and I go but wouldn’t mind more often. She has a nice tent and said I could use it whenever.
• -Learning new things and growth. Emotionally, physically, and mentally I have goals and things I am passionate about. I am my own person and quite aware of the things around me. You should be too.
• -Hiking: I try to do that from May to September and I am a slow hiker. I like to enjoy what is around me. I don’t do it as a workout. So the longest one I have done is 9 miles and that took us a while to do. Like 6 hours. We brought lunch too.
• -Gym: I work out 5 times a week. I sometimes try to get in at 6 but do at least 5 times a week for about 30 mins to 1 hr. I am not super in shape. I do this to be healthy and to move and I do enjoy FOOD. I joined in November 2022 but hadn’t really been in a gym for 3 years due to covid and my location didn’t have very good gyms at the time. I worked out at home and been fairly thin and healthy most of my life. I am still a thin person.
• -Movies- I am all over the place and enjoy talking about them. So you can just ask if I saw it. I like action,80’s B horror, sci-fi, doc, foreign films with subtitles.
• -Music- 50’s, 80’s, alternative, and EDM- motivational videos on Youtube. ( not really into crowds or live music)
• -I do crafts when not working- so enjoy making things by hand and the challenge of learning something new that I can use in art medium. Crafting is a huge part of my life and always looking for things to make/ learn how to make.

Thank you for your time and I look forward to getting to know more about you.