46, Married, Male, Philadelphia Burbs.

I'm seeking a best friend. I realized lately that the piece everyone tells me I'm missing is a best friend.

I'm seeking someone who is very liberal minded. Not just the political ideals either. It's one thing to say you are okay with everyone and it's another actual feel it. I want to think your sexy and attractive but it's more important to me that we connect mentally. I want to know about your past but care about your future. I've had things in my life that have made me passionate and will get along well with someone with a similar fire. If you're a little pissed at the world, we'll get along great.

I'm not against sex and in life I'm a very sexual person. I will happily get you off if we connect and that is what you need but for me sex would be a very minor thing. I'd probably prefer a hot make out session. This doesn't mean I don't understand and want physical attraction. Let's go out clothes shopping and a night out where you can show it all off.

I'm not in a dead bedroom situation. This idea was actually more my wife's idea than my own in the beginning. My wife has her reasons for suggesting this and I'll share with the right person. If I was lucky enough to find someone, I'd want them to open to the idea of hanging out with my wife and I together on a friend level also. Again, this was originally her idea. We are NOT looking for a swinging situation though. This is not her looking for any sort of connection other than friends. It won't be a secret thing for me, but honestly, I understand if it is for you. I get we're all in strange situations so I'm open to any age, size, shape and situation.

I have kids, job, life, car, house, a spare tire for a car I don't own in my shed, broken tools and all sorts of other problems. I live in the Philadelphia area. I'm in the suburbs. I'm writing this under my reddit account I've had for quite some time now, not an alt. You can scroll through the crap and see all the stupid dorky stuff I'm into.

I hope there's a lot to unpack here. It was my goal to provide as much upfront as possible. I get this is ridiculous. I'm in 0.0 chance territory here. If you're at all interested shoot me a message and feel free to ramble.