The R4R thing is a strange little adventure and I continue my search for the elusive Goldilocks sweet spot. Each of the individuals I have met through Reddit are amazing. Each has inspired me and made me see the world through a slightly varied perspective. However I continue my search for that Goldilocks sweet spot..... Someone for me to cherish and who will eagerly cherish me in return.

In MY fairy tale that just right landscape has an eager, perfectly timed, good morning message, a good night message with a tinge of sorrow. Talks about the book that we are reading together and debates about whether the characters were well developed. I just completed "light of of the fireflies" and I really don't think that the father was portrayed in a believable manner, I would love to know what you think about that.

During the day when work gets quiet for us we pop our earphones in and share a private Spotify session. I play you that song which I really like from my Discover Weekly, and you play me that song you loved since you were in school. It's not really my style but I love it cause you tell me about what it means to you.

This fairy tale is filled with us sharing photos and voice notes. My photos are mainly of my child cause that is the most beautiful part of me.

My dogs have heard your voice so often that they associate it with walks and start to howl when your voice oozes through my phone's speaker like honey.

The three bowls of porridge are replaced with virtual boardgames and we have found the game that is just right for us. Daily challanges and a score board filled with countless games tallied by my overly competitive nature.

We accept that things mean that we may not meet anytime soon but relishing this Goldilocks moment makes it worthwhile, and we stretch it for as long as our creativity can take it.