Ah… I don’t know what it was…. perhaps the super freeking coldness outside and wishing I had someone to hold, or maybe the fact that I recently visited a special event at the zoo and wish I had someone to hold hands with and walk around looking at all the amazing lights and exhibits with. I told myself I was just going to wait till next year closer to when I wasn’t as busy, but here we are.

Normally I make really long posts but this time I am just going to try a much shorter version and get straight to the point and see how that works out. That being said the stuff is still up so, if you are interested feel free to peruse the past posts in my profile for lots of info.

Basic info- I am 6.2 230 white, dad bodding it up

Relocation- I will not be leaving California anytime soon and probably… never now lol. I am building a house here on a parcel of land and suffice to say it’s going to take lots of time, energy, and a dumb amount of money because the economy is in a wonderful place right now and everything is super cheap right! Estimated time of completion is around august/September next year. Estimated time of being broke is next October.

Work- I work for the government, been working around 72 hrs a week for 2-3 years now. Pretty hectic I know but building a house isn’t cheap. I will of course make ample time to spend with you!

Distance- honestly this changes from post to post sometimes including ldr and sometimes not. I know there are amazing people out there not in cali, I once met one overseas who was amazing but between my work schedule and the house I just don’t have the ability to travel out of state to visit anyone anymore. I am going to have to say California only this time around, unless you are willing to do all the legwork which is just unfair and rude, but an entire year of talking without meeting is too long.

Family- big on family, happy wholesome family, building my house on family land as well

Personality- my personality is ISFJ.

Age/attraction- age is just a number I am not too concerned with and my attraction is with someone’s personality. I don’t really have any preferences besides gaming but I am also attracted to many nerdy qualities, although I do love green/blue eyes and hair :p

Language- my love language is physical touch. I am all about those cuddles. I very much enjoy the little things like holding hands, running my fingers through someone’s hair or down their arms. Intimacy is how I express myself and very important to me. It doesn’t have to be important to you, but it needs to be something you enjoy. Clingy touchy people to the front!

Straight edge- I am pretty vanilla in many aspects. I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs. I have no children never married and there Is no drama in my life. Small group of close friends. I don’t use social media. I might be a tad bit boring actually if you are not into anything nerdy lol.

Hobbies: I am pretty much a homebody introvert type nerd. Video games, anime, card games, board games, tabletop, j-pop/k-pop/ Chinese/Japanese/Korean TV fantasy/drama yadda yadda etc etc, you get it lol. I love a night in cuddled up watching something or playing a game. I would enjoy traveling under the right circumstances though. A trip to the zoo, museum, aquarium, anywhere we can walk around holding hands and looking at cute stuff is a win. I am open to traveling, but I am also open to just being a homebody and spending time together that way, or a mix of both. Japan would be a lovely visit if going outside the US.

Ideal night: simply a night cuddled up on the couch watching something or playing a game. Perhaps after we have gone out, maybe picked up some food on the way home.

You: a gamer anywhere in cali or at least interested in gaming nearby, nerdy people to the front! loves intimacy, preferably a homebody with possible interest in doing some exploring

I won’t waste your time or mine, we can have some initial talks to see if we are compatible in the long run and within the first couple of days of talking we will know whether we want to keep conversing or not

This seems so short compared to what I normally do but I will end it here. If you want more info just poke around my history. Chat or mail is fine, no one liners please I will not respond. I will be busy with a 12 hr shift tomorrow and spending Christmas with my family on Sunday so there might be a delay in messages, unless I realllllly wanna talk to you :P