Which is another way of saying, how do I know what I want till I see what I find...
But since I feel compelled by the format (expectations of the genre) to specify what I'm looking for, I'll say: friendship first and foremost; "free therapy"; the opportunity to understand more about myself and the world through dialogue with another person. You try and be my human sounding board, and I can try and be yours.
Here's some more info on me:
HOBBIES:
Reading (fiction, poetry, some theory/politics books). Pigeons and other birds/animals (looking at them; urban bird-watching). Walking. Movies and popular culture.
A RANDOM "HOT TAKE" ON "THE WAY WE LIVE NOW":
The average urban pigeon lives a richer, more satisfying life than the average urban-dwelling human being these days. (This is because zombie capitalism is better suited to the flourishing of pigeons than to the flourishing of human beings.)
MY TEMPERAMENT / PERSONALITY:
Idk. It's complicated. I'm intense. I'm mild-mannered. I'm (pseudo)intellectual and genuinely thoughtful. Playful and artistic. I regret that I'm not more sociable. Someone once described me as "cripplingly shy." I was poorly socialized growing up, missed some major social "milestones," and still feel like I'm branded by that. You might also say I'm anxious, depressive, neurotic / obsessional, etc. Also thoughtful and capable of gentleness and compassion.
I'm going to be filtering low-effort replies. so if you feel like you want to connect with me, please write a few full sentences that bear some connection to something I wrote. Thank you.
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