Put “when we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change”, along with your name, age, and where you live. That way I’ll know who’s serious about a long-term relationship. Any low-effort messages along the lines of “Hey”, “Hi”, or messages that are rude, demeaning, or inappropriate WILL be deleted immediately. Put some effort into your messages, guys!

About Me

What’s up? 😁 I'm Becca. 👋🏾🤙🏾 I'm from St. Paul, Minnesota (born and raised!) and I still live here. My height is 5’3”. I’m a liberal Democrat. I'm fully vaccinated and boosted! 🙌🏾 I'm an LGBTQIA ally, social justice warrior, and disability rights advocate. I'm loyal, have a Master's degree in sarcasm, am marriage-minded, am emotionally mature, and am family-oriented. I'm pretty easygoing and down-to-earth.

I currently work as a Personal Care Attendant, but my dream job is to open a martial arts studio/boxing gym for at-risk kids. Martial arts is just one of the many things I'm passionate about! I'm currently a 2nd dan in taekwondo and I've been checking out local Brazilian Jui-Jitsu dojos. I’ve always wanted to raise future black belts who are just as independent and adventurous as their prospective parents. Music is another one of my passions. My taste in music varies between reggae, heavy metal, hip-hop, Australian drill, and Aussie rap/hip-hop. Ask me about some of my favorite artists.

I'm an anime lover, a fantasy/sci-fi nerd (Marvel is better than DC, so is Star Trek. Change my mind! 🤣), and a diehard Potterhead. Animals have always held a special place in my heart as well (dogs and cats to be more specific).

Who I’m Looking For (because creepy people keep sliding into my DMs 😤)

• Has a steady job
• Have your own place or are in the process of moving to a new place
• Consistent and reliable
• Someone who is 30-40 years old. Anyone older than 40 or younger than 30, I’m flattered but I’m going to politely decline.
• I’d prefer to date another person of color. I’ve always been attracted to Pacific Islander men and Native American men.
• Independent and adventurous (legally!)
• Shares similar morals and values as I do
• Wants to get married and have a big family someday! (ex. the near-equivalency of a rugby union team! 🏉😁)
• Not religious (I’m not religious at all and I’m not willing to convert)
• Interested in and invested in developing boundaries so that this relationship lasts as long as time will allow (no co-dependency!)
• Craves my attention
• Knows how to be present without being distracted,
• Emotionally mature
• An animal lover (must not have allergies to any pets!)
• Smart
• Having a strong physical attraction and chemistry should be priorities for both of us
• Please have a cell phone and actually use social media! It’s exhausting to have to figure out how to communicate with someone who doesn’t use modern technology.

If you love cuddling, enjoy going to concerts, are open to different types of music, are independent, love nerdy stuff as I do, you have a good sense of humor, and if you read this post in its’ entirety, and if the qualities mentioned above sound like you (to be honest, I’d be shocked yet pleasantly surprised if I found someone who fits these exact descriptions! 😁) message me either here or on Snapchat (@wolfgrrl92). SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY, PLEASE!

Long-distance isn't an issue, as long as we plan on closing the gap.

I have Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and Discord, as I plan on taking our conversation off Reddit eventually.

Guys with long hair, beards, tattoos, and accents are my kryptonite!!! 🤤Bonus if you’re a plus-sized guy, too! 😍