Hi friends - I'm here again looking for unique people with whom to connect. I am ultimately looking for something that could grow into a primary partnership, but I'm much more concerned with making sure we "get" each other. I can get long-winded AF, so I'll just get to the important details.

I am vulnerable, open, fat, confident, anxious, accepting, outgoing, kind, sarcastic, understanding, witty, underemployed, overeducated, non-judgmental, irreverent, empathetic, delighted by physical touch, neurodivergent (ADHD), into video/board games, adorable, melancholy, sensual, introvert-friendly extrovert, hilarious, I read/write a little German, am low-key into computers, am high-key into figuring my brain out a bit better, easily distracted, uninhibited, non-religious, artsy (pottery, drawing, painting), handy (renovations, building dumb shit, fixing problems), responsible, caring, I think I speak and would love to converse in all 'love languages', flexible, 420 friendly, and verbose.

I'm looking for people who are comfortable being vulnerable and interested in growth/knowing themselves, are between 30 and 45, you enjoy talking, genuine, from literally anywhere (although local people are the most desirable for obvious reasons), you look pretty to me (don't try and decide if I'll like you for me), altruistic, hilarious, neurodivergent (I often connect very well with others who have ADHD or are on the Autism spectrum), German-speaking, progressive, video/board game playing, you have unique physical features, fun, you're a nerd, you are nurturing and kind, and probably a bunch of other stuff. I like a wide range of physical features in people and I'm sure you're gorgeous, whether you think so or not. I'm sometimes particularly attracted to slender/skinny men, but attraction is very case-by-case for me. :D

Things about partners I have a hard time connecting with:
- If you don't enjoy some indoor down time - I love going out, but not all the time.
- After a period of life where I didn't have much energy for it, I'm working on getting a bit more active, but if you want someone to hike with you multiple times a day or be a gym partner, that's not me.
- If you're stupid into sports - Nothing wrong with it, but I just don't get it.

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Deal breakers:
- Must treat people with empathy: don't be elitist, condescending, or conservative.
- Must be open to something possibly leading to a primary partnership.

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Thanks for reading all of this. I know it's a lot, but I really hope to find an incredible person someday. Maybe it's you. If you message, please don't try to impress me. Just be honest about who you are and what you're looking for. Having the courage to do that is impressive. I respond to messages somewhat slowly so that I can get a chance to know people. Please be patient with me. We may not talk in the next day or even this week, but we will talk if you make a genuine attempt and don't seem to hit on my deal breakers. Messages or chat are fine, but I would eventually like to connect on discord.

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If it's been a while and you see this, feel free to say hi and I'll give you an update. :D