Hi there! Thanks for looking, let me tell you as much as I can about myself within the character limit. I am white, 6.2 and 230. I have an AS in information technology and a BS in computer science. I work for the government, more specifically the IRS where sometimes I work up to 12 hrs a day and 6 days a week. I do all kinds of stuff for them; we can talk about the details later if you’re interested. If I find someone of course I will cut it down so I can be with them.

I am kind of shy and an introvert at first, I will eventually warm up and want to do all kinds of things together. My ideal night is simply staying in and cuddling up on the couch together while either watching something or playing a game. I do very much enjoy going out as well though. I love a good trip to the zoo, a museum, safari, park, attraction, or anywhere where we can go and enjoy ourselves especially while holding hands. I have always wanted to take trips to places and visit other cities and countries but am just waiting for the right person to do it with. My first choice for an out of the US trip would be JAPAN. Let’s sip some sake under a cherry blossom tree, visit akihabara ( video game and anime capital of the world!! ), visit shrines, special café’s, and all kinds of fun stuff.

Money wise I am financially stable/secure and am currently saving for my future family, who I hope to be able to find, otherwise I guess I will just end up going on a lot of trips or doing who knows what with it. I was actually about to purchase a house in Q3 of this year but decided to wait. If I end up finding somewhere and I need to move to be with them, which I am ok doing, then it would be a waste, so I decided to wait at least a little bit longer now that I have gotten serious about finding someone to be with. I am actually thinking about re-starting the house now since the last time I posted lol, but we can talk about that later.

Personality- If you want to know a bit more about me on a personal level before actually messaging me feel free to look into my personality it is ISFJ.

https://www.16personalities.com/isfj-personality

I agree with around 90% of everything that they say on here, its scary accurate. I am a very open and honest person, if there is anything you want to know about me just ask and I will answer no matter the subject, just don't ask something you don't want the answer to.

Music/TV- Over the years my music and tv preferences have transitioned from normal into the non-normal lol. I use to listen to rock, rap, R&B, house, trance, you know normal stuff; but now I listen to J-rock, K-pop, and the like. Likewise, I watched TV shows like big bang theory, house, NCIS, once again normal stuff; but now I have moved into a lot more of the Chinese, Japanese, and Korean drama/action/adventure/fantasy. Instead of using Netflix ( ok actually I still do use this ) I am watching VIKI, the Asian version Netflix lol.

Exchange- We should exchange photos and facetime after we have talked some. For me it’s to make sure I’m not getting catfished and for you its to make sure you like what you see. Physical attraction for me has become much less important over the years compared to someone’s personality. I really nothing I would say no to as long as your personality is great. That being said I would fall pretty hard if you had blue or green eyes and a non-normal hair color. Due to my video game and anime influence’s, any type of blue/green/pink/purple etc etc hair color just makes me melt lol. I also prefer shorter rather then taller just because as someone tall it allows me to wrap my body around them easier for cuddling. None of this is a deal breaker though as I said personality over everything else.

Location: I am willing to find someone anywhere in California, I am in central Calif myself. If you are far away though it would be nice if you had your own place, at least for the future. Since I can telework, I can visit you and stay there and just bring my work with me, it will allow us to become closer easier than me taking 4-5 hr drives up all the time. It’s not necessary though, but it would just be convenient. I have tried LDR and it just never seems to work so if you are outside the USA unfortunately, I simply don't think its going to work out I am sorry. If you are in another state it likely won’t work either since I have simply lost faith in LDR, other people, and to be completely honest myself, in making them work.

Meeting up- As for meeting up I would prefer it done sooner than later. If you’re not interested in me then I would like to know rather than to continue talking for a long time. I don’t blame you or anything for not being interested, just please don’t waste my time. I am a one romance kind of gal guy, so if I’m talking to you seriously then I’m not talking to others seriously. If you are simply lonely and just want someone to talk to, I understand, just please say so, I don’t mind talking to you, but I want to look for my love. We need to meet within a month, although to be honest that is still pretty long time, I would prefer earlier but I will leave it in your court. We don’t have to be in a relationship by then or anything but we still need to meet to make sure its going to continue longer.

Family- I am pretty big on family. I live on what I like to call family land. Lots of family live on this land including my parents, my sisters, grandparents, aunts, cousins, etc. We own around 20 acres of land and have over a dozen houses on it. Some family houses, and others are apartments or houses that are rent out to tenants. I am the manager of these rental units and have been for years now. I am slated to inherit them in the future so it would be nice if we are far apart if you could come here, but if that simply doesn’t work then if things are meant to be we can work it out. I can always move to where you are and just hire someone to delegate everything. For all you animal lovers out there we have around 50 peacocks on our land. Ever wanted to feed a peacock from the palm or your hand, pet their beautiful feathers, or hold a baby peachick? Well now you can.

Gaming- Playing video games is what I enjoy doing with my free time. It would be nice if you played too, but it's not an absolute must have. If you didn’t play but were willing to give it a try that would be great too, I would be happy to teach and play with you. I also very much enjoy watching anime. I could talk about these 2 subjects more but my space is limited so, if you enjoy those 2 hobbies then we can talk more in detail later. Even though I enjoy these things I would much rather spend time with you doing whatever else we decide on. Even though I tend to enjoy a night in I would love to travel with the right person and visit new places.

Exercise- I use to play tennis and I was pretty darn good. In California during my senior year I was ranked 16th in California ( humble brag ) and I played in college too. I haven’t played in a awhile but I keep trying to get back into it, never manages to push through though, maybe you can help! I also use to be HUGE on DDR, I was playing the hardest songs on the highest difficulty, my body just flowed…. It was a beautiful thing. I exercise every day, but were talking walking/jogging here lol not going to the gym. If my partner is into something heavy like the gym or hiking, I would be willing to do it with them, but you wont find me doing it by myself lol.

Profile- My love profile is physical touch, so physical intimacy everything from a simple peck on the cheek all the way to sex is important, it is how I show affection. I want to cuddle, hold hands, lay together, and just be intimate together and be there with you. If you do not enjoy physical intimacy I don't know if it will work out. I am a very kind, supportive, loving, affectionate, and devoted person. That being said I don’t have a 6 pack or even a 2 pack lol, I'm pretty shy and will take some coaxing to open up, and I am way out of touch with serious relationships. If you can get me to open up and love me for who I am though, I will always respect, love, and take care of you.

You: preferably close, but anywhere in California works ( hopefully willing to relocate if you don’t have your own place ). Hopefully you are a gamer, or at least interested in trying them out. Its more of a bonding experience for me of combining the thing I love with the person I love. Hopefully you are sweet and kind and able to see me for the amazing person I am. Hopefully you like being showered with affection. Hopefully you love intimacy of all different kinds and enjoy a night in cuddling. Most importantly just be yourself, I won’t try to pretend to be someone I’m not and you shouldn’t either. If we are who we are and hit it off, it will last 😊.

After reading all this, you should kind of know if I’m your type of person or not, please send me a message or a chat ( but I might not respond to the chat asap it is the holidays ), with some information about you and I will respond, just please don’t send me a few sentences if it’s a message. I tend to only check here at night due to well… lack of faith lol, so if we hit it off we can find some other way to talk, via phone, or a messaging app or something. Thanks for reading and I would love a partner to cuddle with during this cold weather!