Hi. I like wordplay.
I don't like Valentine's Day alone though. So I'll spend it with my false insistence that it's just another day.
This is my first V-day post-divorce. And I don't have my kids this weekend. So that's the lonely scene in my apartment. On the plus side... is a phrase to look at the positives of a situation. I'm not going to use it now.
People like to ask me what's my vibe. And by "people" I mean "no one". And what I like to say (right now as I'm making up this whole thing as I go) is that I'm like Mister Rogers but without most of his appealing qualities. I do like to be honest and sing the songs, neighbor.
So this post, like the others, has no rhyme or reason. Reddit is my occasional journal nowadays. My personal ads are personal but not ads. I don't want to sell myself. That feels like bullshit. I could come off as way more attractive than this but fuck the lie, man.
If your goal is more than sex, why pretend to be someone you're not. Don't pretend to be confident and chill and have your shit together when you don't. You can't keep that up. That's not who you are, and the facade will slip in time. Why waste each other's time and energy?
I'm not looking to get off for a night. I'm looking to get on for a while.
Human connection. Friendship. More? If it happens– neat. But I'm not ready nor will I ever force it again.
And that's my guarantee as a safe fucking weirdo on the internet.
Happy Valentine's.
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