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I’ve built a life I love—one filled with travel, art, good food, and taking off to elsewhere for a month just to see what’s there. I value ease, depth, and connection. I notice the little things, appreciate sincerity, and love conversations that linger.
I’m independent, self-sufficient, and child-free by choice. I don’t need to be taken care of, but I want a man who wants to—who is naturally generous, thoughtful, and proud to show up for the woman he’s with. As an eldest daughter and a natural giver, I’ve been in so many relationships that weren’t reciprocal. Now, I want a relationship that feels like a soft and safe place to land.
I’m introverted and a bit of a hermit but when I leave my shell, I travel far and wide. And I can connect easily because I genuinely care about people and want them to feel seen.
What I’m Looking For:
A man who is kind, emotionally present, and steady. Someone secure in himself, who follows through on his word, and whose generosity isn’t just financial—it’s in how he cares, listens, and makes space for the people in his life.
You’re successful but not obsessed with work. You believe life is meant to be lived, not optimized. If you’re thoughtful, warm, and looking for a real connection, we’ll probably get along.
Ultimately, I’d like love to find me again. It’s rare but, it’s found me before and I’ll forever hold on to the hope that it can find me again. This is, if anything, a declaration that I still believe that what I want exists, and I can have it.
If you are a bearer of chance, and that glimmer of that possibility, come find me.
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