I like streams of consciousness styled writing so I'm going to try to type this all out at once without over correcting and hopefully my personality will come through.

I am not quite ready to download the dating apps to find a local connection, so I'm here. It's not that I'm expecting or even looking for a relationship here, as I don't think long distance would work for me. It's more just dipping my toes back into the water of getting to know new people after being off the proverbial market for a while.

It's weird to sell yourself and I hate introductions, it's hard to know where to start. I can't sum myself up in a few paragraphs but I'll try my best.

I've been going through some life changes and it's really highlighted what is important to me in life. I've taken good care of most of the things in my life, whether it be my career, or my family, or close friendships. After reflecting on it, I have come to realize the past few years I hadn't focused on my personal fulfillment and growth as much I would like. So, I've been trying new hobbies, learning new things, figuring out what makes me happy, and what I want out of life. I don't think every day has to be something super productive, but every week I aim to try something new, or do something I've been putting off. For example, I had a relaxing beach vacation to recharge. I've always wanted to get back into martial arts, so i signed up for kickboxing. Or I want to embrace more of my creative side, so I've started painting. Maybe if you're lucky enough I'll share the one painting I'm proud of.

Now, what am I looking for in a pretend best friend. I think first and foremost, someone who wants a good conversation and or connection. If you're looking for that, wow did we just talk for 2 hours, it feels like it's been 15 minutes, kind of night. You're in the right place. I want someone who can be themselves. It's hard to get to the point in conversation where you can both let your guard down and be silly or stupid. If you've got a good sense of humour I'd love that. I'm looking for someone who cares about other people. I think politics do matter and I don't think I'd have a lot in common with someone who rocks with authoritarianism. If you've got a special interest, cool hobby, or cute pet. I want to hear about it.

If you've read this far you might as well message me.