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DrHarby is a male age 36 looking for a female
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I am incredibly open, communicative, and ambitious, and I am seeking someone that specifically meets an intersection of friendship and sexual exploration. I want to be vulnerable with someone I can trust.

About me: I've a rather rich life experience to be honest, so I will try and be as brief as possible. Physically: 5'7", athletic physique, 185lbs lean with some body fat. I personally identify with the fictional character Will Hunting and the dramatization of historical magnate Howard Hughes (The Aviator dramatization).

  • At my core, I believe a healthy relationship relies on trust, communication/collaboration, passion/curiosity, and an ability to be happy alone.

  • I am second generation mexican american, son of a soldier, and a prior Air Force officer. I have lived all over the US and am both a red-blooded American and a proud Latino. I believe in a libertarian set of political beliefs, am an LGBTQ ally, and I believe that we currently reside in a late-stage capitalist society which is pathological to the human condition.

  • I spiritually abide by Buddhist principles in my daily choices: I aim for wise action, word, and thought.

  • I am ambitious, leveraging a deep well of hard-earned technology skills, doing well for myself in the financial services and tech sectors. I consider NYC a home in my heart; it has a gravity to it unparalleled by any other place on this planet.

  • I have embraced my particular flavor of neurodivergence with a degree of mindful intent which has been peeling layers behind the 'why' of mine and others' actions. I communicate to reduce noise and get to the true intents of communication. This translates to a lot of patience when receiving confused, muddled, or even venomous voices. When someone lies to me, yells at me, or cheats on me, I assert my boundaries but also seek to understand and validate the feelings of the person doing these things to me. I think it is entirely possible to be warm and validating to any person's feelings and truth while managing to respect my own bounderies.

  • I am strong

  • I believe in a healthy body leading to a healthy mind, which enables a rich experience in this life.

  • I geek out on Star Wars ep 1-6, Overwatch, Smash Bros, Bojack, American Dad, Aqua Teen, Marvel vs Capcom II, and StarCraft II - I don't really have time to game these days. I love cult cinema (think anything Kevin Smith, Tarantino, Coen Bros, or anything considered 'kino').

  • Sexual compatibility and priority is important to me. I desire someone who is enthusiastic about it and doesn't attempt to cast shame in any healthy desire I have.

If you feel like you would want to get to know me, please say hello, tell me your favorite theme park, and what you can geek out on unabashedly with a stranger on the subway.

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Age
36
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a female
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