I have to admit, I'm trying reddit, because I've always believed that the best relationships are formed online since appearances don't play a direct role. I'm a 31 year old woman, I'm looking for a man who wants something serious and who is ready to invest.

I'm looking for someone in America ideally (United States or Canada) and who is above all open-minded, ready to accept differences and who does not seek to please people at all costs. I am an accountant, financially independent since I was 18 and financially stable for 10 years so if you don't have your things together, don't expect me to sacrifice for you if we go into LDR. I don't mind LDR as long as we have a plan to close the distance from the beginning. I expect someone who is financially stable as well and ready to settle down. I have no children. I know how to take my own decisions so if you the kind of person who listens and needs the approvals of your friends about who you date, you can pass, because I have no time to waste on that. I will respect your friends and family, I expect you to respect me as well. I consider that no one should choose between friends and their partner. There's time for both and I expect you to have your own time/hobbies/independency as I do as long as you give me quality time and chat a little bit with me everyday. I have a hard time with small talk but I still appreciate it with my partner. I look for someone who is caring, loving, supportive, respectful.

About me : I'm an introverted person. I'm shy and blush a lot. Also, I am not someone who parties, drinks or smokes anything, it does not interest me. I'm okay if you vape, drink responsibly as well. I like to go out and discover new places. I'm also someone who likes outdoors activities but I'm not an athlete or someone who hits the gym everyday. I could do it with my partner as long as it's not a gym addict thing and as long as you don't wan't me to hit the gym because you are allergic to a bit of fat on a woman's body. I'm not an athlete but I have a nice body shape.
I'm a calm and soft person. I can not be a nice person if you push me to my limits which includes playing with my feelings/time/take me for granted/gaslight or try to manipulate me. I can be sassy and salty but it's up to you. I'm a gamer and kind of an artist. I love animes and anime conventions. My favourite food is italian or greek and my favourite color is blue like the song (I'm blue Da ba dee da ba di). I like to stay home with my partner and i love cuddles while watching tv shows or movies.

For my preferences : I'm into grey,blue or green eyes. If you have brown it's fine too. I like white(americans/europeans) and tall guys (if you are 5'7, it's fine too eh ! don't worry) Idc what you do for living as long as you are financially stable. I'm into long brown hair or dark blonde as well. I'm open between 29-35yo.

PS: English isn't my mother tongue so I'm sorry for the mistakes :')