First off, I'm not in any rush. I'd like to start out friends, and go from there. A partner is a best friend, so that's what I'd like to achieve first and foremost. That takes time and effort.

Alright. Now that we got that out of the way... Where to start? The basics? I am pretty basic, and I've learned to be okay with that. I was AFAB, but identify as an enby leaning femme. I am a single parent of one gremlin whom I adore. As stated in the title I am very plus-size, but so far I have lost 90lbs and aim to lose more. Mainly for myself and my health. I'm about to be 35 next month, as well.

Speaking of appearances I am primarily first nations with shoulder length brown hair and purple highlights. I have dark brown eyes behind a pair of glasses, rocking several piercing scars, and don two small tattoos; one of which I'd like to get a cover-up. When I work I dress dressy casual, but I wear a lot of casual femme attire while on days off.

Outside my full-time job, much of my daily life revolves around taking care of my child which I am very proud to do on my own. When I'm not busy parenting, I'm an introvert enjoying my hobbies in peace and quiet. I enjoy things like cozy gaming, listening to music, watching movies and anime, customizing my bullet journal, going for hikes during the Spring/Summer/Fall, and swimming. I do get invited out for a social drink every now and again - especially if it involves karaoke and dancing.

Admittedly circumstances and personal choices led to a very turbulent life up until 2022, but I've been in my healing era since then. I am well aware of my neurospicy brain - the mix being social anxiety, severe depression; and suspected but not officially diagnosed ADHD, bipolar type 2, and borderline personality. I openly communicate when I am experiencing any bouts of the aforementioned and try to manage myself as best as I can, but I'm not perfect.

One hint of my neurospicy brain coming through is how detailed and thorough my post is, maybe a tad too informative, but I do like to be transparent.

If we happen to get along and it starts out long distance, I'd like it if you're into voice calls, selfies, and movie/gaming dates that allow us to get to know one another. Unfortunately, my schedule is very tight in terms of time and it doesn't help that I work overnights, so I'd need someone patient yet can chat with me throughout the day. I'm also understanding we have lives outside the Internet, so you'd get the same level of patience and understanding. :)

I am disease and drug-free aside from pharmaceuticals for an auto-immune disease, and drink on rare special occasions as mentioned above.

I'm interested in anyone between the ages of 35 and 40. Fairly well-adjusted, employed, and has a good sense of humor. Otherwise, come as you are. Let's get to know each other!