Hi there,

I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on love—what it is, what it could be, and whether the kind of connection I dream about is even possible. I’ve written letters about passion, vulnerability, and finding someone who can ignite my soul. But here’s the truth: while those dreams are beautiful, I’m grounded enough to know that real relationships are built slowly, through trust, respect, and the natural discovery of one another.

Let me share a bit about myself. I’m 39, based in the UK, and after being in a committed relationship for over two decades, I’ve been single for nearly four years. Those years have been full of reflection and growth, but I can’t deny that something is missing. I miss the connection, the shared laughter, the quiet moments of belonging, and the joy of building a life with someone who truly sees me.

I’m a hard-working professional by day, passionate and focused on what I do. But outside of work, I’m a deeply romantic man. I have a sensual side, as you’ll see in my letters—sometimes touching the borders of NSFW—but don’t let that fool you. At my core, I’m a gentleman who values morals, kindness, and respect. You could even call me old-fashioned in the way I approach relationships. I believe in the importance of mutual effort, shared values, and building something that stands the test of time.

I also believe love can be found anywhere. Whether you’re just down the road or halfway across the globe, distance doesn’t scare me. The idea of jumping on a plane to see you doesn’t deter me—it excites me. I’d gladly embrace the chance to reenact those iconic reunion scenes from the movies, running through an airport to find you, my heart pounding, knowing that you’re waiting for me on the other side. Love, after all, is an adventure, and I’m ready to embrace it fully.

Attraction is incredibly important to me. It’s not everything, but I believe it’s an essential part of any connection. That’s why I think it’s important to share a photo from the start—not for vanity, but because attraction begins with more than just words. If you choose to reach out, I’d love to see a glimpse of who you are, beyond your message.

That said, I’m not looking for anything fast-paced or full-on. I want something that grows naturally, where we take the time to truly know each other. I want to build a foundation of friendship, trust, and shared laughter, where love becomes the result of all the little moments we create together.

Laughter, by the way, is something I cherish. I’ve often been told I have a Patch Adams vibe, and I’ll admit, I do love to make people smile. But there’s another side to me, too—the part that craves depth and connection. I want conversations that linger, moments that make the world feel smaller and more meaningful, and a partnership where we inspire each other to grow.

It doesn’t matter to me whether you’re a mother or not. What matters is your kindness, your quirks, your passions, and your desire to create something real and lasting. I’m drawn to women who appreciate honesty, patience, and the quiet strength of a man who shows up with integrity.

Before you consider reaching out, I’d encourage you to read my letters. They’re pieces of my heart, written in moments of hope and longing. If they resonate with you, if they stir something inside you, then perhaps we’re looking for the same thing.

When you write, I’d appreciate a thoughtful introduction. Tell me about who you are, what excites you, and what you’re looking for. Share a picture, again, not for superficial reasons, but because attraction starts with connection, and connection begins with seeing the person behind the words.

I’m here for the possibility of something extraordinary. To find out if love like this truly exists. And if it does, I know it’s worth the effort, the time, and the patience to build something beautiful.

Looking forward to the journey…