I'm hate-working again as usual on the weekend, and I need someone to check in with on a daily basis to just see how they are, and give the other person info on how I'm doing. This helps give me some kind of reality-check. And hopefully, it helps you stay focused and supported too.
EDIT: About me, I have been called "very caring", "considerate", "reserved","guarded", "really smart", "very professional" and "straightforward".
Work is extremely challenging right now, and like some unfortunates out there, I need this job to pay my bills. If you can take that seriously, and take your own job seriously, we can get along fine.
Also, be in the USA. No offense to other citizens. It's just a lot easier to quickly establish contexts and have a common understanding.
What I'm seeking:
Consistency: We need to make this ongoing.
Friendliness/caring/basic warmth
Comfort with online interactions
Familiarity with white-collar work environments
Basic understanding of modern-day workflows and work routines, productivity etc. Ex: If I let you know I'm thinking of buying an extra monitor so I can look at all my data without squinting, I don't want to hear some crusty response of 'Lmfao! back in my day, we never even HAD monitors! Lazy bum!'
Here's what I do NOT want:
'Send me your pics!'
'So when can we voice chat??'
Flirting
Ghosting: If you can't keep this ongoing, please do NOT reach out.
Tough love: We're adults. It's great to mind boundaries and not go crazy with any angry tone.
Motivational garbage. Seriously, no 'Omg just leave if you hate it so much!! lol' nonsense. If you have any connection with the economy or you've ever worked a challenging position in your life, you'd know things aren't that easy or simple, especially now. Not interested in inspirational crap either.
Fantasy world living: We should be able to discuss something more and better than a bunch of old MCU stuff.
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