Hello everyone!

I'm a 32 year old nonbinary AMAB (probably better described as MtF transwoman) who takes hormones and presents fem nowadays after accepting myself for who I am! I'm a bit of a Japan nerd and will be taking my sixth solo trip to Japan from January 18, 2025 - February 5, 2025 to explore and just have fun. Though I'm American and speak English fluently, I am conversational in Japanese and keep coming back to Japan due to years of having studied the language and just loving the vibe/culture. Aside from that, I enjoy watching anime, reading visual novels, and exploring cities in general!

I normally travel alone; however, I'm hoping to potentially meet someone during my travels who I can share at least a small portion of it with. Not necessarily spending entire days together (though I'm certainly not against it!), but more like someone I can spend evenings/dates with as time allows. I normally spend my time traveling to random neighborhoods and exploring shops/restaurants to get a real sense of everyday life. I've already done most of the obvious tourist stuff so that doesn't particularly interest me. I plan on visit plenty of izakaya (late into the night), spending some time in Ni-Chome at whatever bars I feel comfortable at, and just enjoying three weeks of carefree fun and exploration.

I'm pansexual (meaning that I like anyone and everyone including fellow NB's/trans); however, I do tend to prefer a more feminine and/or gentle person. Think along the lines of a nice/soft-spoken man/woman fairly opposite of the stereotypical "big muscle car/loud music/MAGA" crowd. I'm also fairly "vanilla" and am not looking to fulfill a fetish (no "sissy", "dom/sub", etc.).

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, feel free to let me know! A picture and a thoughtful message are always an excellent start! A good sign that we might connect well is if you read through the entirety of my post without getting impatient or otherwise wondering why I'd written so much! Any kind of NSFW contact will be blocked though I'm happy to talk otherwise.

(My main reddit account has some personal-ish stuff so I want to avoid IRL issues with that which is why I'm using my relatively inactive alt account.)