Hi there!

See, you do remember staying up late talking to that person about everything and anything, grinning here until your cheeks hurt. I think many of us seek that feeling as we, as humans, love to discover and explore one another, as we get to know each other. This is what makes getting to know someone so interesting and what keeps us intrigued. Oh, not to forget the cheeky good morning / good night texts too.

Hi! I’ve recently been inducted into the 40s club. I don’t feel it though, but some days I’m definitely reminded of it. Besides, they say 40s is the new 30s, right? Or it’s just an excuse to try and feel young again? I live in Melbourne, Australia, and have done so all my life. I’ve had short stints in other capital cities, but what’s not to love about Melbourne? I’m educated and currently working in the IT industry. I enjoy what I do. Yes, some days it’s hard, but it still challenges me every day. I love an intellectual conversation and a conversation that you’re able to hold and continue. I’m pretty open to topics and generally can chat about anything, and especially love hearing about your experiences. I’m separated and living in my own place. Don’t worry, it’s no bachelor pad. Haha. I’ll be upfront: I’m not as fit as I should be, but it’s something I’m working on. I’m tall (6ft ish), have dark hair, and hazel eyes. I come with no kids, but I’d like to get started on my own family one day. (Obviously, not right away, but it’s got to be on the cards.) I’m here to find a connection with someone. I know you’re out there. I definitely know my love languages, so I’m keen to discuss that. OK, so enough rambling on…

So about you. I’m after someone who can love me for who I am. Also, be able to show some affection. You’re intelligent and able to hold an intellectual conversation as mentioned above. Being humorous with witty banter has bonus points. I’m seeking someone in their late 20s right up to mid-40s. A woman who also comes with or without kids (please, no baby dad problems). Also, kids would have to be on the cards. I’m after someone who invests in themselves, mentally and physically. My non-negotiables are: no drug dependencies, alcohol abuse, no smokers/vapers, financially sound, and most importantly, manners.

OK, that felt long. Thank you for making it this far. If any of the above strikes you and you’d like to have those late night chats and grinning until your cheeks hurt, hit me up with a chat or message. Message with where you’re from and how old you are, your preference on dessert and why? We’ll chat here first, then we’ll go from there. My go-to is Discord. Please no low-effort replies.

Hope to speak to you soon!