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37 [M4F] #Maryland/#Online-US. Gamer nerd hermit sending out a message in a bottle, hoping to connect with someone to share life with.
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crimzind is a male age 37 looking for a female in Maryland
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I'm in north-eastern MD, but I'm happy with an LDR until distance can be closed.

I appreciate that you're taking the time to give this a look, and to be respectful of your time, I feel like I should just disclose some general things that I worry will deter some away. I currently work part-time in billing (I copy info from papers into a computer), I don't currently drive, I live with family, I'm a bit overweight, and I have an upper denture.

I deal with some mental health struggles: ADHD, Anxiety, persistent-depression, and I'm probably on the spectrum for autism. I'm in therapy, on meds, biking to work, and doing better in general, but, you know. Some things are part of us, and we'll always be dealing with them in some measure. I'm a very verbose/talkative individual. Over text, I send lengthy replies, and… I think it can be a lot, for some people. I'm a nightowl. I'm usually awake ~12pm-5:30am EST. M-F I'm usually free after 10pm.

I don't have/want children. Monogamy/Exclusivity is important to me. I'm looking for my person, and I want to be theirs in turn. The closer in age the better, but if you're comfy with our age difference, you're welcome to reach out.

Some things can obviously change and improve, and I'm trying. That said, those details disclosed, if there's nothing there that's an outright deal breaker… let's see if I can generate some interest?

I have good friends, and people in life who I respect the opinion of, who speak positively of me. I'm told I'm intelligent, conscientious, caring, considerate, supportive, empathetic, honest, warm, loving, thoughtful, introspective, and self-aware. I'd add affectionate and emotionally available.

My love languages are touch, time, and words of affirmation.

I'm initially timid/nervous/anxious. It takes some time for me to get more comfortable. I feel like a pretty generic nerd. I like Games, TV/Film, Cartoons/Anime. My go-to genres are Sci-Fi/Horror. My Musical tastes are varied. Favorite band might be Night Club. I read occasionally, or listen to audiobooks. Currently enjoying Wind and Truth by Brandon Sanderson. I also enjoy Jim Butcher and Terry Pratchett. I like LEGO, D&D, and Swimming. Recently got a 3D printer and airbrush to tinker around with. I enjoy winter and fall. I like the rain. I play a lot of Warframe, and Marvel Rivals, CoDBOps6, Darktide, Helldivers 2, and Halo Infinite are all installed to play if someone wanted.

I'm a very left leaning person, politically. Agnostic, but compatible with those of faith. I'd say I'm an LGBT /PoC ally. I don't smoke or drink, but I do enjoy cannabis edibles, and I'm pro-psychedelics.

I have an associate's degree in 3D Simulation and Game Design… without any of the skill-set to really use it, sadly. I think I'd do okay in video/audio production, and I'm looking for work in that field. I do have ideas for a game I'd like to create with a friend.

I live in a rural area, and I'd kind of like to move somewhere closer to a city. Somewhere near Seattle seems nice.

As mentioned, I'm a timid fella, so I really like when someone else is forward/direct, takes the lead. I like clingy/possessive. I'd really value someone who gets mental health struggles, though, and finds fulfillment/value in being a patient, reassuring, and emotionally supportive presence for their partner. Maybe you struggle with it, too, and I can provide that for you in turn. Someone to play games or watch things with, to share the days with, to fall asleep together with. Someone to spend a good amount of time with. To make plans about a future with.

Thank you for any time you spent reading any/all of that. As long as this post is up, you are welcome to reach out. I'd love to get to know you, to just enjoy one another's company, and maybe watch/play something together.
Take care. <3

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