Hi everyone,

I am an introvert and it's been kind of difficult for me to make friends offline after all my existing friends moved to other countries or got busy with relationships/ jobs/ marriages/ kids. As a result, I feel kind of lonely and crave deep connections.

I'm very open to LDRs but if you think you can't make it work, don't reach out.

-My favourite hobby is reading;

• I work full-time but can always squeeze in some time for you as I value relationships. I have previously made it work with people living in different time zones.

-I'd love to talk with someone who'd be interested in listening to the day-to-day things happening in my life;

• I find joy in small things like sharing food snaps or tell you what I shopped for today.

• I'd want to talk to someone who can be there consistently. If we don't get along, we can, of course, not continue, but I'd like to be friends with someone I can emotionally rely on. For example, if I'm feeling down, I should be able to discuss it with you. If you think you don't want to listen to my occasional rants or offer me perspective, then we won't get along;

• I'd also want you to be able to open up and tell me things about your life, things that are bothering you or making you happy. I'd hate to make everything about myself, so if you want someone you can open upto, we can be good friends / partners.

• I only get along with people who are left-leaning /liberal. This is important, so let's not waste each other's time.

• I'm Asian and have an olive skin tone. If you fetishise people of a certain race, or you think this is a problem and you have preconceived notions that you can't change, then move on to the next post :)

• I'm an ex-gamer and don't like games anymore. If you're the kind of man whose life revolves around gaming, we won’t get along.

• I'll be happy to exchange pics after we get to know each other a bit. If we develop enough trust, we can video and voice call, too, depending on how comfortable you are.

• We'll not get along if you're xenophobic, homophobic, transphobic, or simply can't respect other humans, etc.

• I'm totally demisexual. So, short-term, hooking up, or FWB kinda stuff doesn't work for me. If you have the same views, say hi!

Thank you if you took the time to read my entire post. If you want to message me, tell me what's your favourite food and book. Also tell me what similarities do we share?

Have a great day!