I guess you can insert a polar bear pun somewhere in here :P
Opposites attract - especially physically. It isn’t just a cliche. Let’s see if we match?
About me:
I have my life somewhat put together. I hold a nice career, make enough money to travel(when possible!) and achieve my dreams in my free time.
I have an active lifestyle. I work out quite a bit and do martial arts as well as weight lifting. I'm usually in the works of getting into a new physical hobby... So, I'm that guy haha.
As for looks, I look... Nordic! 6'0/183cm tall, weigh around 94kg/210lbs and luckily a good amount is muscle(not quite ripped, yet at least - I like to cook good stuff as well!). I am broad shouldered and have dark blonde/light brown hair.
I care about my appearance and how I present myself. I don't think I over-do anything, but I'm confident enough to say I'm above average in attractiveness.
About you:
You're from anywhere! I love meeting people from places I haven't been. I'd love to learn as much about your background and where you're from as well as.. your personality! One shapes the other.
Writing longer messages back and forth is something you'd enjoy.. Since that's what we'll be doing! Asynchronous communication is something you might find interesting; we'll more than likely be several timezones apart, so it's likely to be the setup. Likewise, there's bound to be some delay in replies from either side due to the same reason.
You care about your looks at some level. You're healthy looking and prioritize fitness at some level. You don't have to be a gym-rat like myself, but I'd love it to find someone to do active things with: Jogging, hiking... Anything really. Your personality isn't tied to drinking, smoking or playing computer games 8 hours a day. Most things in moderation are fine(I drink occasionally, for sure), it just shouldn't be your whole personality. Smoking is unfortunately a deal-breaker for me, I find it very unattractive.
I like contrasts and opposites in a lot of ways in life. Eyes are a nice contrast, as is skin tone.
Please be culturally open. Maybe you aren't well-traveled(but you'd like to be, one day), but at the very least I'd expect an understanding of the fact that people from different places in the world are... Different. Hold different values, and different ways of looking at things. I'll respect the differences, as should you. If you're in any way (casually) racist or the like, just don't bother please :)
Anything low-effort like "hey how are you" won't really be replied to. I'm a busy man, and you're probably a busy women; anyone I choose to invest time in should also be able to do the same by actually getting to know one another in a real way - not a "hey wassup" way.
I may come off as a bit intimidating/high maintenance like in this post, but I prefer to get ahead of managing expectations! I'm quite silly and fun when you get to know me, so don't feel too apprehensive :).
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