I finally had a chance to go through these last night and saw that people thought I was only looking in the U.S. I am NOT looking only in U.S. The subs just demand you put a location, but I'm looking globally. If you fit the criteria, please apply. My laptop is literally falling apart, not an exaggeration. I've also had had hand issues that made typing difficult. But, I'm applying to the ones that are good in the order they are received. PMs are preferred over chats as they are easier for me to reply to on PC. This week is unfortunately insanely busy for me, but hopefully by the weekend I can send everyone a preliminary message. 

When I posted the other day some strange individual messaged me and something along the lines of after reading your entire post I can tell you've never experienced pleasure...whatever that means. When you look this good, you can get *that* anytime you want. I'm here to connect on an intellectual level in a way that transcends the physical. If you're seeking that also, keep reading. The hot and heavy and honeymoon phase are great, but I'm looking forward to sitting in rocking chairs on the porch holding hands at 80 plus drinking tea, no words necessary because we just get each other. Most of the messages also did not include the answer to the icebreaker questions. Feel free to try again if you wish.

Ideally I would like to find my person, but I will settle for talking to someone cool for a few months. It hasn't been a good year for connections. I've either gotten tired of them, they've gotten tired of me, or it's been a mutual loss of interest very quickly. Sometimes things can be amazing if they don't turn out exactly right. Like my cheesecake didn't set, but baby the flavor profile is incredible.

 I love anime, 90s cartoons, dancing, painting, writing and weight lifting. Taking up tennis has been on my 2025 bingo card for a while. Martial arts was a new edition a few months ago. Apparently I have a lot of power behind my kicks. I guess thick thighs don't just save lives. I love music and have a diverse taste in things I enjoy. I'm loving 80s-inspired stuff lately. Perfectly petite black beauty with captivating curves. I do prefer interracial relationships, but I'm open to any race. I was not impressed with the offerings in the genre--you know what they say, if you want something done right you have to do it yourself. Maybe our love story will be the inspiration for my next book. 

This year was way too busy, so I've been far too entrenched in the mess that is America. Tell me about your country. Tell me about your holiday traditions. What do you eat? How do you decorate? I love learning about new places and customs.

I've done car repairs and put beds together this year, but I'm looking for a man that can open jars for me and fix things around the house. It's almost 2025 and there's still nothing sexier than a man that protects and provides. It's also important that you be kind, funny, and a good teammate.   It certainly won't hurt if you're tall either. 

I hate dry conversations. No hi how are you messages. No messages where you say you'd love to know more about me and I'm thinking I'd love to know ANYTHING about you because you didn't include anything.  Your preliminary message should tell me enough about you that I am curious to know more and want to write you back with a few follow up questions. Your message should include your age, general location, hobbies and the answers to the following: What is something you are looking forward to getting this year, do you have a white or green Christmas, and what is something you're proud you accomplished this year? Everyone seems to be looking for photo pen pals.  After we talk for a bit I'm happy to send some preliminary photos, but I'm not interested in sending or receiving selfies every day or even every week. If we stay in touch long enough, we will video chat and you'll get to see plenty of this beautiful face. 

It's not nice to keep a lovely lady waiting, so take the time to craft a thoughtful reply and send it. This may very well be the start of the most wonderful journey of your life, why wait?