Watched a lot of movies around this topic with a few fan favorites being 500 days of Summer {listen Tom, you were slightly toxic but boy did you highlight the small things about a relationship I crave) and Her (whether you agree or not, Joaquin Phoenix encapsulated albeit a rather clingy infatuation to his AI partner that spoke to me). I've accepted I'm more romantic and hopefully that's your vibe as well.
Looking to constant strive for improvement, I've built a rather happy life for myself. Add onto my small goals of being healthier, constant learning and challenging my beliefs, make my home life peaceful and fulfilled. I enjoy my job (I work as an operator in the chemical manufacturing industry), It provides a good living (which was lacking for most of my life lol) and it provides me with an ample amount of time to stay in touch with you throughout the day if you're the type.
LDR doesn't bother me too much, ideally after a set amount of time we both feel like it's appropriate we would move in together and start that journey. I put the cap on Western Europe or North America because with my schedule, time differences aren't too big of a deal for me (I work nights/days).
I do spend a lot of time on my computer whether it be reading financial statements (It's actually stimulating for me lol), playing games, and watching youtube. It's a good segue into having a webcam and ample amounts of time staying in touch with each other that way. I love running, lifting weights (low key vane), playing with my pit/lab mix dog, traveling ( just got back from Destin, FL) and reading (just finished my first book for the year!). I love love coffee and in the process of establishing a pretty respective bar that even r/coffee would appreciate.
I like small things in relationships that include weekend cuddles (obsessed) as we wake up slowly, making coffee in the morning in our underwear as we love on one another, holding hands at the farmers market looking for dinner ingredients, snuggling in a hammock on a beautiful summer day, riding bikes or running together, having quite moments in the car on long rides, you sneaking kisses on my cheek while I'm playing games with my friends, dressing in our A outfits and getting lost in time on our date...I'm rambling too much but you get the gist.
I think fundamentally, even if we don't share the same hobbies, having the same goals and future outlook is most important. I'm very inquisitive so be prepared for me to move past the "what's your favorite color" to "why did you choose your career and what do you appreciate the most in life"? :)
If you could include picture(s), I'd appreciate it. We could click in a lot of ways but finding each other attractive is something I find important. I do lean towards petite all the way up to a normal/athletic type, just a preference.
Here's me, it's only fair :)
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