About Me:

Hello! I’m a 40-year-old professional based in Melbourne, Australia. While I may not feel my age, I bring with me a wealth of life experience and a strong sense of self. I am well-educated and currently thriving in a career that challenges me and continues to shape my growth—both personally and professionally. While I appreciate technology, I value my privacy, so I’m not active on social media (except for Reddit). I enjoy intellectual conversations with people who can engage thoughtfully, and I’m open to discussing anything that’s on your mind.

Physically, I’m tall (6’ / 183cm), with dark hair and hazel eyes. I’m not in peak athletic shape but stay active and enjoy sports—even if I’m not always the best, I’m always willing to give it my all. I’m working on improving my fitness and overall health, as I believe self-care is important.

I have no emotional baggage and am ready to build a future, including a family (though not immediately, but it’s definitely in my plans). If you’re not interested in having children, we’re probably not a match. On the other hand, if you have children from a previous relationship, I’m open to that. I’m not here to play games—I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who shares similar goals and values.

About You:

I’m looking for someone who can appreciate me for who I am and isn’t afraid to show affection. You’re intelligent, able to engage in meaningful conversation, and can also enjoy lighthearted banter. Physical attraction matters, but it’s not everything; I value compatibility and connection more. I’m interested in finding a partner, not just a fling. Ideally, you’re in your late 20s to mid-40s and open to the idea of building a family in the future.

I believe in the importance of self-investment, both mentally and physically, so I’m seeking someone who is working on their own personal growth—whether that means fitness, career, or life in general. While I’m not looking for a supermodel, I do appreciate someone who is taking care of themselves.

My non-negotiables include: no substance abuse (drugs or excessive alcohol), no smoking, financial stability, and, above all, good manners.

How to Reach Me:

If you think we might be a good match, feel free to send me a message! We’ll start chatting here, and if it feels right, we can move to a more private platform like Discord for further conversation.

When you message me, please include: • Where you’re from and your age • The best advice you’d give your 16-year-old self • Your favourite lollie / candy and why

I look forward to connecting!