So, I’m a 42-year-old guy in Austin—single, never married, child-free, and somehow still navigating this strange world of online dating (send help). I’ve got a great career, a dog who’s trucking along, and a healthy appreciation for both the simple and a little “extra” things in life. You know, like enjoying a grungy dive bar taco or, on the flip side, indulging in a fancy cocktail at a rooftop bar that makes me feel like I’m in a music video with an overpriced drink in hand. I’m 5’7” and 175-ish pounds and I’ll leave it to you to decide if that’s your type.

What I’m really after is a genuine connection. At this stage, I’m over the endless surface-level banter that comes with dating apps. I’m looking for something real—where the conversation flows effortlessly and, ideally, doesn’t make me question my life choices after every text exchange. I know it takes time to build that kind of vibe, but when it clicks, it’s the best feeling. If you’re on the same page and not just looking to trade one word replies for a day and a half, let’s actually chat! Bonus points if you’re not afraid to share a picture sooner than later—because let’s face it, we’re all just curious by nature.

When I’m not working, I like to keep it low-key, but I can also be social. You’ll find me at local dive bars with friends, in a beer league sports group pretending to know the rules, or binge-watching shows I’ll swear I’m “just finishing” but really just prolonging the inevitable. I also enjoy tinkering around the house, because someone’s gotta keep the home from falling apart. And when I need to recharge, you can catch me meditating in the quiet of my home or contemplating how to master the art of doing absolutely nothing.

While I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere, I’m pretty set on sticking around Austin for the long haul. So, if you’re nearby or at least open to the idea of this weirdly wonderful city, we might just be a match.

Let’s chat—small talk, but also real talk!

proud Democrat