I'm navigating some intense anticipatory grief right now, which means I'm not always at my most socially vibrant. But even in this raw space, I find myself wanting genuine connection - maybe especially because of it. Fair warning that I might need patience and understanding as I balance processing with presence.

Some days I'm more fog than person, but when the clouds part, I'm a curvy, thoughtful introvert with a master's degree and the kind of mind that collects fascinating fragments of knowledge. While grief has temporarily muted some colors in my world, I still find myself drawn to sharing quiet moments of discovery and connection.

I come with strong values (including unwavering support for women's and human rights), a well-worn library card, and yes - an ongoing quest for the perfect pickle that somehow feels both ridiculous and vital right now. Even in this heavy space, I can still transform an evening into something meaningful - whether that's exploring new takeout options or having those raw, honest 3am conversations about everything and nothing.

Looking for a left-leaning man (30-47) who understands that healing and connection aren't linear journeys. Someone who can sit comfortably in both light and shadow - capable of holding space for grief while also appreciating the unexpected moments of joy that sneak through. Bonus points if you're also losing sleep over good books and the state of democracy, and if you understand that sometimes the most profound connections happen in the quiet spaces between words.

If you're someone who can appreciate both depth and gentleness, who understands that real connection sometimes means navigating through fog together, I'd like to hear what's keeping you awake lately - whether it's wonder or worry or both.