What I am looking for:

I’m on the lookout for someone who embodies kindness, fun, wit, and patience—both with me and others. Ideally, you’re a music lover with an eclectic taste, an avid reader, and someone who enjoys exploring new places. Whether we’re grabbing a bite at a cozy diner or dining at the fanciest restaurant in town, I want you to feel at home in both settings.

I currently prefer to connect with men who reside in the United States, specifically those aged between 32 and 45.

I know this might seem like a tall order for a Reddit post, but hey, why not shoot for the stars? What do we really have to lose?

Now, here’s a crucial point that shouldn’t even need mentioning, but here we are: We’re both adults. If a conversation or voice chat isn’t vibing, let’s be upfront about it. Ghosting is unnecessary, and I promise to communicate the same way with you.

A little about me:

I’m a funny, intelligent, and capable individual. At 32, I find myself single while most of my friends are happily married with kids. While I’m genuinely thrilled for them, I often feel lonely and like the odd one out.

I work for a magazine and live in New York City, a place I absolutely adore. I love the hidden gems that only locals know—the charming restaurants, cozy bookstores, and inviting cafes. New York City truly is the best!

I enjoy cooking and entertaining, dancing in my apartment at 3 AM to Billie Eilish’s latest album, and belting out tunes with my hairbrush as my microphone. Christmas is my favorite time of year, and I love sending surprise cards to brighten someone’s day. I can watch movies on repeat until I know every line, and I appreciate both dressing up and dressing down. There’s nothing quite like snuggling up with a blanket and peppermint tea for a movie night at home. I’m also a huge fan of live music and concerts, and I love knowing every word to the songs—sometimes even making up my own lyrics like Oprah used to do!

I don’t play video games; I know that’s a big part of being social right now. But I do play Match 3 games on my phone. However, if you want someone to game with you, I’m not that person.

Please don’t apply to be friends or maybe if we vibe more if:

I will not tolerate racism, bullies, homophobes, and people that put others down to make themselves feel better. I get that we all have bad days, but I am not your punching bag, and I’m not your therapist

Please don’t be married or have a girlfriend, I am not looking to add more drama to my life, I don’t want an angry wife or girlfriend messaging me.