Warning: This might be a long read, but hey, I’m looking for someone real who values meaningful conversations, so this is the perfect test for your attention span (and your first taste of my long messages to come… just kidding — sort of). Ready?

About Me: Auburn hair, green eyes, and easy on the eyes (so they say). I’m a self-employed content writer and homeschooling mom, which means I juggle creativity, resilience, and a touch of chaos daily. Recently, I closed the door on a very long marriage, and now I’m ready to explore something new with someone who values connection, communication, and partnership.

When I’m not busy working or orchestrating homeschool adventures, I love immersing myself in fantasy and sci-fi—Star Wars, Marvel, Studio Ghibli, and Game of Thrones are some of my favorites. My bookshelf is just as adventurous, ranging from fantasy escapades to the occasional spicy novel.

I’m apolitical, non-religious, and not much of a sports fan, so if football is your weekend religion, we might not be the best match. But if you love conversations with wit, depth, and a touch of playfulness (self-deprecating humor gets extra points), we’re already off to a great start.

What I’m Looking For: I want someone between 38-44 who’s taller than my 5’4” (because those top shelves weren’t designed with me in mind). My ideal match is from Europe—especially the UK or Ireland—and a native English speaker with a sharp sense of humor and self-awareness.

Kindness, emotional availability, and vulnerability are must-haves. I’m drawn to culturally similar men who are straightforward and know what they want. And yes, an accent that can make even grocery lists sound charming doesn’t hurt.

I don’t do well with timelines or pressure—I prefer things to evolve naturally. But I deeply value emotional maturity and appreciate a man who knows exactly what he wants, bringing the right mix of chemistry, respect, and those butterflies.

In Relationships: I’m affectionate, thoughtful, and all-in. When I find my person, they’re the best man in the world to me, and I make sure they know it. I love hugs, kisses, lazy movie nights, and spontaneous adventures, but I’m also an introvert who treasures her quiet moments to recharge.

I value connection, quality time, and those effortless moments where the chemistry feels just right.

One Small Request: I only reply to messages where you tell me about yourself. Include your age, what makes you interesting, and anything else you think might charm me—because great conversation is the way to my heart.

If you’re emotionally available, aligned with my preferences, and ready for a real, long-term connection that’s fun, balanced, and authentic, send me a message.

“I have spoken.”