Hello and welcome to this nice cozy abode where I'm going to tell you a bit about myself, what I'm looking for, and how to contact me if you're interested! Dating apps just aren't for me, gone are the days of oldschool OK Cupid where you could build out an entire profile and search for people you may be also interested in and who also have entire profiles. Everything is just swiping and there's just no way to avoid these types of apps now.

About me:

— My name is Jesse, I'm white 5'7, cold blue eyes, brown hair, plus size but I'm working on it (down 20 lbs in the past 2 months woop woop!)

— If you follow these things I'm an ENFP, Enneagram 6 Wing 7, and a Taurus, so that should tell you a bit about my personality if you're interested. But otherwise I'm one of those creative, compassionate types.

— I'm kind of a huge nerd, especially about Video games and anime. I'm kinda decked out in the gaming sphere as I have a gaming PC, a Nintendo Switch, an Xbox Series X, a Steam Deck, and a Meta Quest 3 for VR. I've owned every Nintendo console since I was born except the N64. In terms of anime I watch both mainstream and seasonal.

—Aside from gaming I like to read, mess around with AI (I make art and toss it in photoshop to create cool things) (I also make music and am working on making my own album about moving away from home, dreams, and friends/loved ones) and try new foods. I also like history and going to museums. I also like board games and like learning new card games and listening to music.

— I have a bachelors degree from a state university, and also got a 4.0 in computer repair and servicing through additional schooling

— I'm working on making my own video game with a team of people (I'm the founder!)

— I don't do drugs

— care a lot about mental health and emotional wellness

— love languages are Quality Time, Physical Touch, and Acts of Kindness (I'm a giver and believe small things to show affection is nice :) )

— Looking for a Long term relationship

— Unsure about kids especially in todays economy and how expensive they are, maybe eventually? I am currently child free

— I am demisexual and pansexual, I am far more attracted to someones personality and interests first before appearance

— currently studying Japanese on DuoLingo

— don't drive at the moment (gave my car to my sister when she moved across country) but I live a block away from the Long Island Railroad with easy access to anywhere on the island or the city

Looking for a Woman who is:

— Honest, kind, patient, good with kids (I'd strongly prefer child free)

— 40 or younger please

— It's okay if you are 420 friendly, I don't partake in it, drinking socially is okay too

— Funny with a good sense of humor. Show me memes and silly videos!

— Isn't afraid to trying new things and enjoying life.

— Can talk play or watch nerdy things for hours

— enjoys cuddling when together

I'm mostly looking for someone who makes me feel safe and warm. Someone who can make me laugh and feel at ease, who isn't afraid to be honest and have fun. Sweet, nerdy girls are ideal for me.

Ideally we're not too far apart and eventually we can share a visit, since I live close to NYC I have easy access to Amtrak and the Port Authority Bus station

If you want to chat, send me a direct message (not a chat! those tend to get lost in the void that is chat bots) and include your favorite color so that I know you read this! yours gets mine :)

— If we hit it off we can move our chat to discord to make chatting easier