Scene: Late Evening, Online Chat Conversation

Characters:

• Me: Warm, friendly, and excited to meet someone who values communication and shares the same hopes for a committed relationship, faith, and family.
• You: A sweet, down-to-earth guy in his 30s or 40s, single, Christian, looking for a long-term relationship. He’s kind-hearted, open, family-oriented, and loves dogs.

[The chat begins with an introduction after they’ve met on Reddit.]

Me: Hey there! I’m so glad to connect with you. How’s your night going?

You: Hi! My night’s going well, thanks. Just finished dinner and gave my dog some treats before settling in to chat with you. How about you?

Me: He sounds adorable. I have a dog too and he’s like my little shadow. Dogs really make life brighter, don’t they?

You: Oh, absolutely! Funny, we’re both dog people—honestly, I think that’s a good sign. 😄

Me: I think so too! So, tell me more about yourself. What brought you here?

You: Well, I’d say I’m looking for someone who wants a genuine connection. Faith, family, and communication are really important to me. I’d love to build a relationship that’s about growth and friendship, and maybe one day, you know…marriage and kids. What about you?

Me: That sounds a lot like what I’m looking for too. My faith is a big part of my life, and I’d love to share that with someone. I guess I’m here because I’m hoping to find someone who values that kind of closeness and commitment.

You: It’s great to hear we’re on the same page. I also think communication is key—like, really knowing each other through those day-to-day talks, the simple check-ins. Little things mean a lot to me.

Me: Yes, exactly! Honestly, that’s one of the main things I’m looking for too. Life can get so busy, but I’d love to have someone who makes time to stay connected. It’s the best way to really get to know each other.

You: I couldn’t agree more. Sometimes, even a quick “How’s your day?” can mean so much. So, what’s something you’re passionate about?

Me: Aside from my dog? Hmm, I’d say I’m passionate about family and creating a meaningful life. I love the idea of building a life that’s filled with love and joy. What about you?

You: I love that! For me, it’s pretty similar. I’m close with my family, and I’d love to create that same kind of close-knit environment with someone. Family dinners, weekend getaways—all those little things are what make life special.

Me: Wow, that sounds amazing. I can totally picture that! Do you think it’s still possible to meet someone and really enjoy the process of falling in love?

You: I absolutely believe that. I think when something is real, you don’t have to rush it. I want to enjoy getting to know someone before rushing into something physical. After all, that’s what lasts, right?

Me: Yes! That’s exactly what I believe too. You seem like you really know what you’re looking for.

You: I try to, and I feel like it’s important to be upfront about what I want. I guess I’m just hoping to meet someone who feels the same and wants the same. It’s nice to talk to someone who’s on the same path.

Me: It really is. Who knows—maybe this is the start of something special?

You: I’d like that. Here’s to seeing where this takes us. 😊

[End of Scene]

Can’t you imagine it? This scene could totally be us! If you sound like the person above, are looking for something real, won’t make things sexual too quickly and won’t ask for pictures before getting to know me for longer than 10 minutes- then send me a message!