That my friends is my experience with dating in your 30s in a nutshell.

I saw a post here recently that was so confusing and elusive and artistic it made me really wanna say “what is up?” (I didn’t) and thought to myself “maybe I can do that” and quickly realized, I absolutely cannot, because, me, myself, I am boring and not insightful.

I’m recently 31. I have a career (I guess it’s a career). I have healthy (and unhealthy) habits. Who doesn’t. And I live for nights that never end, even though I typically hit the sheets at 8:30pm. I’m an early riser trying to form a morning routine. And I’ve never met a stranger. I believe heaven is a ton of pews of everyone and everything you’ve ever loved and the buffet there starts at 6. Heads up - not religious this is just what I’ve thought since I was a kid and stick to it.

I love dive bars and cheap Budweiser. I like the fancy stuff too, but I just feel at home next to a dude in a 3 patch vest or a lady with a few missing teeth and a cigarette hanging out of her mouth. I’m creative enough to make gifts, but not creative enough to go past that. I love sports to give me something to talk about and be extremely sad or happy over. Music is my…music is just about the biggest driving force in why I use all my PTO every year. 200 concerts and counting (RHCP has been my favorite one before you ask). I workout out despite being a bigger girl - ask me about my leg press goal for my 31st year. Big gym girly. Motivated on occasion, but it’s often fleeting.

I don’t like a people hater, video games or anime. Life’s too short to be negative about everything, something in life has to be good. I see how that’s a hypocritical statement after saying I don’t like something. But those things are just not for me.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/aSWSbk1 and as I said bigger but not huge.

Looking for : solid conversations, Midwest emo playlists, strong connections in the age range ~27-47 please don’t waste my time is all I ask. I’m a human, I have feelings and emotions too.

Preferably let’s chat not message!