Hello lovely human. Thanks for checking out my post.

Essentially, I’m an aromatic bisexual chic looking for connection, friendship and companionship in forms outside of “typical” romantic relationships.

Something on the lines of a queer platonic relationship or deeper friendship(s) or a non romantic life partner. This type of companionship could look like a lot of different things, could be two people or more. I’m fairly open, the key point being that it’s not primarily romantic.

I simply don’t have authentic desire for romantic intimacy. I like the idea of it; it’s cute to read about or see on TV, and I understand it on an intellectual level but I don’t feel romantic love or romantic attraction. And any attempts I’ve made feel disingenuous and fake.

However I do desire companionship, and interpersonal relationships. I’d love to have a person (or people) to share life with, to spend time with, to travel with and to have deep conversations with.

I’m very drawn to sharing experiences and intellectual connections, and I do experience platonic and familial love. As I am bisexual, I also enjoy physical relationships as well, though this isn’t a requirement.

Probably also important to note that I do want a kid in the near-ish future. I’m exploring single motherhood options, but am also open to the possibility of finding someone to share all/part of that experience with.

At this point I’m not really focused on location or age (just be over 21). Aesthetic attraction is kinda important, and of course physical attraction if it’s that type of relationship. No smokers, no hard drugs, no heavy drinkers. Kid friendly, dog friendly. Personality, shared interests and values are important. Also probably important to mention I live in a rural town in Colorado with no immediate plans to change that.

More about me- Gemini, INTJ, ADHD, very pragmatic, free spirited and independent. I value knowledge, curiosity and honesty. Travel is my biggest passion with 42 countries visited so far. I’m nerdy in a pop culture sort of way (MCU, HP, Star Wars) and I adore going to Disney theme parks. I’m into witchy things like tarot and crystals. I like to write, read and craft. I don’t go out much, and I pretty much loathe parties or small talk. I deal with some social anxiety, though weirdly being anonymous in a crowd doesn’t bother me. I like bookstores and coffee shops, the occasional museum or night out dancing. I rarely drink, dont smoke or do any type of drugs. Technically Christian but not practicing, more spiritual perhaps. Politically I’m somewhere between moderate and liberal but pretty much dislike anything political. I’m white, reddish hair, blue eyes, short and slim/average built.

So, there’s the gambit. I know there’s other out there like me. Just finding something so likeminded can be tricky! But here’s to