Hi!

Earlier this year my marriage ended after more than 20 years together… no animosity, we just grew apart. I took a few months to mourn and I did some casual dating, but now I think I’m ready ti find something a little more serious!

I’m 45 and an IT guy - but don’t hold that against me I think I’m pretty normal! I think I’m fun and silly - I like to joke around and always find the positive side of things! I love to cook, I love Football (Bills Mafia, baby!!), and I’m a big movie nerd. I am a huge gamer… video games, board games, tabletop games, card games - I love them all! I also have a very nerdy collection that we can talk about if you’re interested.

Physically, I do have a dad bod, which I totally get is a turn off to some. I have been making some changes though, and I’m down more than 60 pounds this year and I hope to continue getting healthier!

I also have two teenage kids. You wouldn’t meet them anytime soon, but you need to be OK with me having kids and then being VERY important to me. I am snipped and don’t have any interest in having more babies or starting over at my age, but I am very OK if you have kids - it would probably give us something to bond over :-D

I don’t really have a physical type - I’m one of those weirdos that’s way more interested in personality and connection - that indescribable “spark” you feel with some people. But, I would say a sense of humor is very important to me! You should be intelligent, patient, open-minded and adventurous (in and out of the bedroom!!).

I don’t know if I have a specific age range I’m looking for, but I would totally imagine if you either don’t remember the Clinton presidency or if you DO remember the Nixon administration, that we might struggle to find things to talk about a little!

I feel like I’ve written a small novel at this point - so if I haven’t bored you and/or scared you away… please reach out and let’s see if we have any mojo together! I hope to hear from you soon!!