Single, introverted goofball looking for some folks to chat with here and there. Sometimes I can message during the day, sometimes not so much. That’s just kind of how it goes as life tends to get in the way. I’m sure you get it. Often, I can be found looking for conversation in the wee hours of the night as that is finally when things slow down and honestly, I have trouble sleeping. Working on that though.

While I’m not as new to this online chat thing as I was a year ago. I’m still not as well versed as most out here in the wild west of the interwebs. So if you reply give a girl some indication that you are real and want to have a conversation.

One of the things that I have learned is that ghosting is a very real and ever-present reality of this platform. For that reason, I’m not into trading pics until we’ve gotten to know each other a bit. I also really like the idea of getting to know you as a man and you getting to know me, before all that comes into play. I’m plus size and have been working on establishing a healthier way of life over the last few years. But I’ll always have these curves.

I love music and enjoy reading when I can find the time. I have certain shows and types of movies that I go for. But I don’t watch as much as I used to, just don’t have the time these days. I’m very much an adventure and comedy girl over drama and horror.

While I’m looking for a connection with a nonjudgmental single guy around my age to chat with, I don’t know where I want that to lead. So, I’m keeping an open mind for now. But will say for the time being it’s an online only deal. I’m not interested in anything in person as I just don’t have time for it. Doesn’t mean I won’t make the time if I meet the right guy. So, friends or friends plus, I’m open to the fun and flirty and serious alike.

What I’d love to do is continue to learn and grow as a person through building great and hopefully long-term friendships. I’m not going to click with everyone that replies and that’s okay. I will try to reply to anyone who sends me a message. I might not get back to you right away, but I will eventually if you’re patient with me. And if we don’t mesh, we learned something about ourselves that we can take to our next interaction with others.