This is a hard post for me. Being so vulnerable is terrifying.

♡ I'm 37 and single. I have children. I have a job that requires a background check. Just so you know I'm not a crazy person 😜

♡ I'm looking for a long term relationship with a man who is serious about marriage. I'm not looking for hook ups or sexting.

♡ I'm still a work in progress, I hope you can be patient with me and support me while I heal and grow. I would also love to be your best friend and support you along your journey and goals.

♡ I will say I'm going to be extremely picky. I've allowed myself to look past red flags in the past because I didn't want to be alone. I'm not in need of a relationship, I want one.

♡ I'm not interested in having more children. I'm open to a blended family though and the possibility of adoption.

♡ I'm not picky about looks. I ask that you have good hygiene.

♡ I need someone who is mature. I'm not looking to take care of anyone. You having a job and your own place is a basic requirement. On that note, I'm not materialistic. You don't need to have a certain "status" to impress me. I'm very independent and I expect the same from you.

♡ I do not do drugs, smoke or vape and I ask the same from you. I rarely drink. I don't mind if you do.

♡ I truly need someone who will be my best friend and partner.

♡ I'm willing to move for the right person, or if they want to move to me, so I'm okay with getting to know someone long distance for a while.

♡ I don't want to waste your time or mine, so please only message me if you are serious in investing time together.

♡ Please send me a message telling me a first date you'd like to take me on. And your favorite childhood movie.