This is the longest I've been single and I'm weirdly not even in the mood to change that, even in 2025 which is a sort of goal I've set for myself. Yes, I'm lonely and miss lots of aspects of being in a relationship but I don't think I'm even close to being ready and liking myself enough for that to be healthy at all. I'm supposedly working on myself to change that, but it's exhausting and seems futile. Posting here is convenient even if it's mostly lackluster and unfulfilling -- a strange surrogate in the meantime, or maybe I'll never date again.
I could list a meaningless list of interests and hobbies like how I like my bloody valentine, Elliott Smith, quirky movies, and once played the sitar. In reality, I'm a blob with too much work anxiety that spends 70% of my time in bed on my phone. It's depressing. I know how to crawl out of it eventually but in the meantime some nonjudgmental, lightheaeted virtual company might help. Please be around my age (30-40ish), single, with zero expectations -- bonus points for mutual interests, attraction (it's fun), etc. Chat is preferred at first with initial messages including age/sex/location, a little about you, maybe a pic (cats/food/pretty skies included) or song, etc.
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