Hey, I’m Ven—35, Indian, and far from your typical guy. I’m all about ditching outdated traditions, patriarchy, and regressive mindsets. If you’re looking for someone with progressive, feminist vibes who believes in equality across the board, I’m your man.

About Me:

I’m a cybersecurity pro, active in US and Indian timezones, from my cozy WFH setup here in India. I like to think of myself as the kind of INTJ-T guy who’s thoughtful, empathetic, and always up for deep conversations. I might be an extroverted introvert, but trust me, I value meaningful connections over surface-level stuff any day.

Oh, and I have ADHD—which just means I’ve got a little extra spark. Thanks to therapy, I’ve got a great handle on it, and mental health is something I’m super passionate about. If you’re into astrology (no judgment), I’m an Aries Sun, Leo Moon, Virgo Rising—a cosmic cocktail of fire, drama, and precision.

My Interests:

🎶 Music: My playlist is as diverse as it gets—rock, metal, R&B, blues, jazz, and international bops, with a dash of '90s and 2000s nostalgia. Metallica, AC/DC, Linkin Park? Yeah, they’re my jam.

🎬 Movies & TV: From horror and thrillers to historical dramas, romcoms, and sci-fi, I’m game for anything that’s either scary or makes me think. Oh, and I’ve got a soft spot for '90s Cartoon Network and the occasional anime binge.

🎨 Art: I’m a passionate painter—my creative outlet when I’m not deep-diving into cybersecurity or cooking up something awesome. Wanna see? [Check out my work] https://imgur.com/a/reQWzUP

👨‍🍳 Cooking: Food is love, food is life. Cooking is my go-to therapy, and I’m always down to whip up something delicious for the people I care about. Take a look at some of my culinary masterpieces here.

🐾 Cats: Proud cat dad, and yes, I’m that guy who takes care of all the stray cats in the neighborhood. Want proof? Meet the crew and [some more of my fur babies] https://imgur.com/a/cpcNooo

About You:

You’re progressive, open-minded, and value meaningful conversations over small talk. Whether you’re a fellow LGBTQ ally, a passionate feminist, or someone who just enjoys breaking the mold, we’ll probably vibe. Bonus points if you love cats, good food, and are a confident plus size woman. You are someone consistent in conversations and won't ghost. Open enough to let me know if things don't work out and give closure. This is very important to me. I don't like ghosting.

About Us (maybe?):

Picture this: two curious souls exploring music, art, and deep, thought-provoking conversations together. Or just laughing over a bowl of my homemade pasta, binge-watching something thrilling, or sharing random cat memes. Explore something beyond platonic friendship.

I’m 5’10, bald, bearded, and rocking the dad bod with pride. Wanna see? [Here’s me] https://imgur.com/a/s9xs37W

Let’s connect and see where things go!