Hello stranger, i know it is hard to find someone compatible, especially online, but just in case it is no me what you looking for i wish you luck. Dating me is like walk over the moon.

I’m Jack, 31, i live on Midwest, but definitely want to move somewhere in the near future. Got Montana on my list, maybe Texas, somewhere west, but i’m open for suggestions. I love nature and quiet places. A big house, maybe a farm, or a ranch, big happy family and watching stars on the porch every night with my wife.

Even though reddit is definitely not the best place to find anyone mature and living close to you, i’m trying anyway cause you never know. Posting here from time to time and i hope that maybe my soulmate is gonna read it one day.

My grandparents met on a train. What if my grandfather missed a train that day or took a different one?

I don’t want to miss my train with You.

WHAT IS MY GOAL?

My goal is to find a fine woman, my soulmate to build a future with. I’m ready to settle down in the next few years, i want to have family and kids in the future and i know how to treat them well. I will kiss you good-morning and goodbye, open and hold the doors for you, listen to your needs and thoughts and be there for you whenever you need it. And what’s more important - i will always respect you and try to understand. I’m a gentleman and i was raised like that, i have a way with women and i can talk with anyone, just give me a chance. I can make you fall in love with me in 72 hours*

First of all i think three important factors you looking for are: 1. Mutual attraction 2. Similar goals/shared interests 3. He is not a complete dumbass

I will start with mutual attraction. I’m willing to exchange pics in private just so we know that this can work and you like my appearance. I don’t want to add my pic to this post cause i care about my privacy. I will be honest by saying it is an important objective, a physical attraction. We can share pics right away to not waste each other’s time.

To make things easier i can say a few things about my looks: 5”11 (180 cm), 165 lbs (75 kg), blue eyes, black hair, broad shoulders, deep voice, nice smile, good heart.

Second most important thing for you is who i am and what i like.

I’m a man of strong moral fiber. I value honesty, loyalty and kindness. I treat people right and i’m willing to help whenever i have a chance, i also care for my family which is super important to me. I see myself as a conservative person. I hold traditional values and i got much respect for religion and history. Individual freedom and free speech is all i’m about, also i’m a pacifist, i will defend my family and close ones with all i have, but at the same time i’m not looking for troubles and not getting into fights, that was never my thing, i like to resolve problems with words, not fists.

Shared interest paragraph is ready to go. I like to read a lot, i also write some stuff, im getting ready to publish my book one day (all i need is more inspiration from You, pleas be my Muse).

Music is my thing, i’m going to a lot of concerts and festivals, road trips, playing eight ball and soccer, watching youtube channels about history, science, cosmos and some other topics, i’m watching a lot of tv series and movies, like to spend time outside by walking or hiking, i like outdoors but i’m also a huge fan of spending time in bed and doing nothing.

Favorite music: too many to write them all down but grunge like Nirvana and Pearl Jam, some britpop or rock like Oasis and Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Kings Of Leon, rap Drake, Kid Cudi, J Cole, some rnb like Majid Jordan, Jorja Smith, The Weeknd dance or electro music like Tourist, Kaytranada and just much, much more :)

My favorite writers to name a few are Kerouac, Murakami, Vonnegut, Shakespeare, Bukowski, Fitzgerald, Sallinger.

Favorite director is definitely David Fincher, although i like Tarantino and Linklater and many more.

I love everything about 90s - music, movies, television, soccer, games, fashion, JUST VIBES in general. It was such a good time, good days. I like to rewatch movies from 90s from time to time, some funny comedies but also some romantic movies or both, recently i did it with Notting Hill, Hugh Grant and Julia Roberts, both are awesome! I can watch anything with Brad Pitt.

WHAT IS MY GOAL PART 2/WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR

As for the kids - i even have some names for kids that we can discuss it. I know how hard it is growing up without a father figure that’s why i always wanted to give that to my children, a big and happy home where dad and mom loves each other a lot and sending this vibe to their children. I also want to show to my kids all the books and music albums we love so much and i want to be for them always to raise them well! So if you are up for that - awesome!

I want a woman who is ambitious, i want her to support me cause i will do the very same thing. I want you to watch a soccer game with me willingly and i want you to invite me to your world, show me what you love and i want to be in it for you, even if it means watching a silly show in tv. Whatever makes you feel good, i want to be a part of it. Support, support, support and don’t kill the other person’s vibe, i’m up for it.

I want a woman that is willing to talk about our feelings and everything, cause a real talk is the most important thing to build a strong foundation. Let’s talk and don’t hide our feelings.

Life is worth living and it is way better to spend it all with the person you love, i want to find that person here. Maybe that is You? Let’s find out.

Also, the last thing - i’m not a complete dumbass, sometimes i’m just a silly boy!

And i didn’t say a word about sex and stuff but that’s very important, i have some kinks, i’m glad to hear yours and i won’t get well with someone who thinks sex and intimacy are not important.

FIND ME A GIRL AND I WILL MAKE HER HAPPY.

Also i want to include one of my fav quotes:

'Cause when you talk about these things, something ignites in you, and I can see it on your face.

And I don't see that on a lot of people. And, you know, whatever that feeling is, when you feel it, I feel that too.

And it's not just here. It's... It's afterwards. What I'm trying to say is i really like the way that I feel when I make you feel the way that you do.”

Let’s burn like stars, together, xx

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