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Here is the TMI of red flags - I've been in Texas my whole life and I want to move somewhere less hot with mountains (thinking Colorado). I live in an RV that's paid off & a truck that is too. I am 6 foot flat on feet, add 1-2 inches depending if I am wearing boots or not. I was 250 lbs and an alcoholic last Thanksgiving - quit drinking and lost a lot of weight and gained a lot of clarity; my lowest weight got to around 209 I am currently sitting at about 218 - I suspect I will start dieting correctly again (ate a lot of carbs the last 2 months) as I want to get (and stay) in shape. I don't want to make it sound like I am some kind of health freak - I am not. I have GSHV-1, pea sized spot once every 12-36 months, that's it, does not effect me whatsoever. Very well to talking more about it if you're curious.
My background is oil and gas and I worked for many years making millions for CEOs - kinda got tired of it and put my 2 weeks' notice to my former employer back in June. Looking to start a new chapter, I have a plethora of licenses and certs that I can pretty much go where I want and find work (not looking until 2025 currently). I am divorced x1 and have no kids or animals (but I want tiny goats, chickens, fluffy cows, etc). I am also snipped so I can't have any of my own; that doesn't stop me from dating with kids [not small ones or more than 2 or not self-sustaining] (sorry - we all have preferences). There are pics of me in my bio. I have been told I have a soothing voice. I also don't get angry or upset at my partner. If there is an issue, we fight the issue and not each other usually laughing it off; I am the quiet one in a busy room otherwise. I lean left and I'm an Atheist but politics / religion does not scare me away from someone - teach me how your mind works, let me know what's inside there so I can be level headed with you. I am also 420 friendly. I care about equality, education, mindful thinking, respond, not react, women's rights, help for LGBT (one of my closest friends is gay), good morning / good night messages, hot make out sessions, be obsessed with each other, I will tell you I am proud of you, kinda vibes.
I like to cook, off-road, camp, hike, look at the stars, I never really wrote before but I started writing in one note and it helps my anxiety a lot so I try to write twice a week. I want to like video games but I just can't get in to them, I passively play one or two here and there - but won't ever turn down a board game. I have anxiety and depression, but medicated for it. I want to kayak, don't own one but maybe we can shop for one together. I like nature and taking pics (I shoot with a 5D Mk 3) but not very good at it. I feel a good first date would be a nice walk, somewhere quiet.
While I am generally an overall happy person with dreams of owning a homestead (one day maybe?) I would like for you to have the following -
- Be able to communicate well
- Not excessively overweight
- Not missing any front teeth
- Not in to heavy drugs
- No kids (unless they are self-sustaining)
- From the US (Canada?), mountains are a plus but not a prerequisite
- Are you an alcoholic and want to stop drinking? Send me a DM. Want to keep drinking? Still send me a DM. I didn't use to control myself around alcohol but I am free from the chains now.
Sorry for the book, I realize there's a pretty slim chance I will find someone but it doesn't hurt to try. <3
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