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41 [F4M] VA/DMV Finally accepting that maybe it’s me
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novabam123 is a female age 41 looking for a male in Virginia
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I’m so bored. I’m not the typical DC-type other than the fact that I’m over educated and pretty proud of it. I grew up in the area so I’m not a transplant who came here for work. I’m professionally employed but am not looking to get ahead or for the next big thing. I don’t have a dog, and I probably won’t be getting one. Dating apps are not for me—swiping, endless messages—I don’t see the point anymore. And I don’t know how many more boring meals I can sit through or how much longer I can deal with people who agreed to go out yet seem inconvenienced from the start. What gives? It must be me, right?

I’m 41 although I’m always told I look younger. I’m definitely an introvert but can have an intelligent conversation if I’m given enough to work with. I’ve never been married and don’t have kids. I’ve survived this long on my own so I know neither are essential, but I’m still hoping for both. It’s been quite a while since someone has genuinely sparked my interest, and I think I might be losing my mind because of it.

Now the dealbreakers. I’m only interested in someone close to my age and location. I’d like to actually be able to meet in person and don’t see myself chasing love across the country. I’m an equal opportunity dater, but I’m black which might not be your thing. I’m also not attached to my phone so I may not respond quick enough for your liking.

If you’re still reading, are close to DC, Arlington, or Alexandria, and like to do fun stuff on the way to building a meaningful connection, maybe we’d be a match.

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Profile updated: 2 days ago
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a female
Age
41
Looking For
a male
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2 months ago