Hello!

As the title says, I am a 31 year old trans woman hoping to find and build a friendship that will develop into something deeper. I’d like to talk to someone who wants to share in the effort of fostering a connection, so seeking those who are interested in something longer term. I wouldn't be opposed to meeting, traveling, or relocating, but only for that right person.

I love to read! My two favorite, non-romance, books are The Stormlight Archive by Brandon Sanderson, and The Kingkiller Chronicle by Patrick Rothfuss (PLEASE RELEASE D3!). I’d love to hear about your favorite reads, or even get some recommendations.

I would love to play video games with folks ^-! My current obsession is OW2, but I’ve got an eternal on-again-off-again relationship with World of Warcraft. I’ve got 4 years experience with the “younger sibling’ controller; so an avid watcher and helper if you’d like to stream a single player game. (Other games: From Software, Rocksmith, Mario Maker, Stardew Valley)

I like to stay active and try to fill my weeks with walks, hikes, and especially bicycle rides! Would absolutely love to have company to share long bike rides with eventually.

I love music! Consuming music, I’m all about finding the “prized jewels“ across albums and building eclectic playlists with my favorite songs. My current favorite artists are: Rainbow Kitten Surprise, Palace, BadBadNotGood, and classic rock. BUT!!! I also love to play music! My go to instruments are drums (several years experience), Bass guitar (a couple years), and Cello (1 year), so if you're looking for that special jam person, I might be your gal.

Lastly, and I am sure you could already tell based off of how long this post has become that, I love to write. That’s what I primarily focused on in college! I primarily like to write poetry, but also like to write fantasy, romance, and non-fiction. Always happy to workshop and share. Maybe we could even write something together =)

I understand that compatibility comes in all forms, shapes, and creeds, and so I’ll try to outline what I think I am looking for, but ultimately leaving room for us to let that be defined organically.

Creative: The chain reaction of creativity is such an amazing experience. I hope to find someone who wants to write, play music, talk about silly scenarios, or pass the hours away day dreaming about the future.

Warm, kind, and supportive: Feeling safe to express yourself and give space to grow is hard but worth the work in my opinion. Would love to share in supporting and building one another up, even during hard times.

Intellectually curious: Playing with hypotheticals, mulling over assertions, debating the merits of an argument, and entertaining ideas foreign to my own are passions that help me understand the world around me. I hope these may be passions in yourself as well.

Silly: Life is hard and work is stressful, and nothing melts the misery away like losing yourself in laughter. I hope we can lose ourselves together in the silly moments.

Active: Sharing workouts, especially bike rides, is something important to me. So the physical ability to bike longer-ish (15 miles ) distances would be ideal.

Things to be aware of:

AuDHD

West Coast time zones (but I work crazy hours at times)

Transitioning since 24

Broke a finger trying to break a pencil

Lean slightly more on the kinkier side

If any of the above speaks to you, do reach out and let’s find out together if we can build our hearts’ forever home.