Please be 30-45 if you're going to message me.

What I'm looking for: I am primarily looking for companionship and friendship. I am open to more if things go down that road. You never know, right? I am open to friends of all genders, however, I only date men.

Me, new pictures from 7/20 are at the bottom: https://imgur.com/a/W9O0uUj

I am demisexual so please don't try to flirt with me right away. Child-free and never married. I am currently living in MA although not exactly married to the area. I'm thinking of moving back to NH eventually.

I love old school turn based jrpg's (SaGa Frontier, Chrono Trigger, Wild Arms, I can go on), tabletop rpg's (D&D, 7th Sea, Desolation etc.), and music (such as stoner metal/rock, hair metal, some hip-hop, although I like many things). I'm currently DMing for the first time using Heroes of Cerulea. My sense of humor can be a bit odd (give me all your questionable memes, dad jokes and dark humor). I'm also a little spooky in that I love Halloween, have been known to dress goth (when I can find the energy), and am fascinated by taxidermy and wet specimens.

More interesting stuff: I am a dog mom and snake lover (all animals, really), liberal, love to cook, a bit of a wrestling mark (AEW, GCW, NJPW, etc.), and love to learn new things. Want to info dump about something you're passionate about? Feel free!

I am ideally looking for a non-smoking 30 nerdy and/or alt guy with a good personality, similar interests, is in or near the US (possibly open to someone who would relocate to the northeast). I greatly value good communication skills and a sense of humor. Please do more than provide one word responses and expect me to carry the conversation. I would like for us to be able to express ourselves without fear of judgement and be able to laugh at the absurdity of life together. I love the written word and appreciate men that are intelligent, witty, and able to participate in a little banter.

If anything in my post sparks your interest; feel free to message me with a little about yourself, a picture so I can put a face to the name, and why you think we'd make good friends. Bonus Points for dog or reptile pictures.

Low effort messages will be ignored.

Have a great day!