Hi all! Good afternoon! So first I guess I should say thanks for clicking on and looking at my post, I hope that if you read it all you get some entertainment or something. But if you don't like reading I'll just say this -

TLDR - I'm a well adjusted healthy trans woman looking for someone with shared values, dreams and interests. I think it's important to be kind, honest and helpful whenever one can...I want a happy little life with fun, growth and exploration. And I want someone on a similar wavelength. If you think it's you maybe read the long version then shoot me a message after if you still feel that way.

For those looking for the long of it -

I'm looking for like minded peeps who want a happy little life filled with lots of shared love. I want someone I can go on adventures with--i don't really care if those adventures are going to the grocery store together to get treats for our movie night or kayaking to a little island campground to spend the weekend. I just want someone to do it with. That's not to say I could do anything. I probably wouldn't jump out a plane with you or go in a tiny little sub to see the Titanic. But 😝 I just mean to say I'm fairly easy with my lifestyle. I have a preference for going out and doing things over being an absolute homebody....but I also have some social anxiety and so don't like being around large groups of strangers all too much. I love boardgames and small groups of good friends.

I'm looking for someone I can be myself with. I like being a brat, playing around and having fun, making jokes, being weird, and getting my way by being cute/sweet. I may sometimes self deprecate like near anyone else, but I love myself deeply. And I am not looking to have to hide bits of myself or change who I am. I'll like you best if you're secure and probably some sort of nerdy and/or funny.

I'm looking for good conversation. I wanna really get to know you. I wanna say good morning and goodnight and maybe one day talk on the phone lots and lots. I want to learn about you and I want you to want to learn me. I can usually find something to ask or share if a conversation is slowing down but ultimately this will only ever work if we both work for it. I grew up on msn messenger. So I love to chat online when getting to know someone. It's also why you might catch me using so many emojis. All I have is my phone so I'm mostly always here, kinda. I do have a preference to focusing on irl people when socializing.

I'm looking for a long-term partner. I've been married. And recently got out of a near three year relationship. I love being in relationships. Even if when they end they can hurt quite a bit. I like to say -- it's supposed to hurt. That means it meant something. I'm still friends with both my exes. I've tried the whole ONS and casual fucking thing...it's not really my cup of tea. I want to love, deeply. I wanna grow with people. Not just get older...but connect and share our experiences and knowledge with each other. I know it won't happen overnight. It takes work. I'm always willing to do the work. I love hard, I'm deeply devoted and maybe a little clingy when I'm in a relationship.

I think I'll leave it all here...this is already a long post. So I guess thanks for reading all this. If you wanna read some more about me or just have a lot of free time and like the way I write - I have this post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4r/s/yHBUGNsIrC to hopefully entertain you in some way or help you pass the time. If anything I've said resonates, or you're bored and lonely--shoot me a message. Tell me about yourself or tell me what resonated with you. Ask me questions and tell me what you're upto today. I promise I'm excited to hear from you. For everyone else out there, I hope you're find some form of happiness in this crazy wonderful life.

-M