Hi!

I tried this a few days ago and all my conversations fizzled and I didn't get the job I thought I would.. so here I go again to find distractions!

In November I quit my job. I worked in financial services and loved my job but since then I've just been bumming around. The winter was so wet and now the summer has been so hot - what happened to spring? Or cold winter but at least dry so you can do things? Either way.. this time off has shown me that I am not self motivating! If given the option I will just hang out in bed all day reading reddit.. fortunately I can afford this for now though early retirement needs to end soon for my own sanity (and quickly depleting bank account!). So why am I posting to reddit? This time off has shown me that my life needs more than just my dogs and work and I just find dating apps so tiring. I want to share my life with someone. So hopefully you do too.

Some other tidbits about me:

• Single (as should you be! No I am not looking for just a friend)
• Homeowner - and generally like DIY projects though I always find myself doing like 75% and then moving on.. so many patched walls with no paint on it!
• Live in Central NJ by the Shore (because my dogs love the ocean and houses were much cheaper in 2016!)
• Have three dogs and no kids!
• Spotify is amazing - love political podcasts, punk, emo, hardcore, 90's, etc.
• Center left politics.. I recognize our debt is out of control and we need to do something about it but we also need to protect those less fortunate/families/kids/elderly. Solidly voting Dem right down the ticket and finally excited that we may get a woman president! And Midwest Dad as VP
• Do not like clutter and try to keep a clean house (which is difficult as my brother and nephew live with me and.. dogs!)
• Love going on hikes (ie walks in the woods..) but will not go camping. I hate bugs. Hate them! And I have the most comfortable bed in the world - why would I choose not to sleep in it???
• I am big on talking on the phone. It's comforting and I have a cute voice. So if you're not down with phone communication .... Well you better be super super attractive. (I jest!)
• Love finance, personal investing, personal finance.. I like reading about it. I give great advice (that I do not take!)
• My favorite sport is hockey. I don't really watch it anymore but I'm a NJ Devil's fan.
• Grew up in NY, lived in Manhattan for 12 years before moving down to Jersey 8 years ago. If you had asked me 10 years ago if I would have ever lived in Jersey I likely would have choked on my words because I would not have been able to speak from the shock of someone even asking me that..
• Here's what I look like (https://imgur.com/a/photos-QvjwGBj) I'm chubby (but working on it!), 5'6 and a vegetarian. I'm also straight edge (no drinking, smoking, drugs). So standard 90's hardcore/punk kid that never grew up.
• I've traveled to over 20 countries around the world - my favorite city to visit was Rome (because I love ancient history). Asia was incredible but I always miss home whenever I'm away. If I could live in California I'd move in a heart beat.
• I love love love alien, disaster, zombie, etc. movies and books. I've watched ID4 so many times .. it's like a warm blanket at this point. I've seen a bunch of movies this summer of unemployment - Deadpool & Wolverine was so so so good. Twisters was awesome. Twister is literally one of my favorite movies from my teenage years.

I could go on and on but that's a good list... if any of this resonates with you and you'd like to chat send me a message. Like I said I'm unemployed so I'll most likely respond since I'm pretty bored these days while waiting for future employers to start paying me a bunch of money to answer e-mails! I also don't sleep at night and am up for the markets so around a lot of weird times even though I'm on the east coast. Also not into age gap situations .. just weird. A 25 year old should be with someone /- 4 years.

Cheers!